Izimbangela Zokufa: Imibono yethu kuqhathaniswa Neqiniso

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• Kungani kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela enamandla okukubulala
• Manje ithini leyo datha?
• Ukukhathazeka kwethu kwehluke kakhulu emaqinisweni
• Manje, buyela kudatha…
• Kepha kunezindaba ezinhle - asihlali njalo singekho

Ukuqonda izingozi zezempilo kungasisiza sizizwe sinamandla.

Kungani kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela enamandla okukubulala

Ukucabanga ngokwethu ukuphela kwempilo - noma ukufa - kungakhathaza. Kepha futhi kungasiza kakhulu.

UDkt. Jessica Zitter, i-ICU nodokotela wokunakekelwa okunciphisayo uyichaza ngale ndlela: “Ukuqonda izindlela ezijwayele ukubonwa njengabantu besondela ekupheleni kwempilo kungasiza kakhulu ngoba uma abantu bazi ukuthi izindlela zokugcina zokuphuma zivame ukubukeka kanjani, maningi amathuba okuthi bazilungiselele eyabo njengoba isondela. ”

UZitter uqhubeka athi: “Abezindaba bavame ukungakunaki ukufa okubangelwa yizifo, kuyilapho ukuzibulala, ubuphekula nezingozi kungukudla okungajwayelekile [ngokuya ngezibalo] kodwa kuvusa imizwa yabezindaba. Lapho ukufa kuphathwa ngendlela engeke yenzeke, siphuca abantu ithuba lokuya ezifweni futhi senze nezinhlelo zokufa abebengathanda ukuba nakho. ”

“Awunakufa kahle uma ungakholelwa ukuthi uzokufa. Lapho abezindaba besusa ukunaka kwethu ekufeni ngesifo kuya ekufeni ngezimbangela ezenziwa ngokuthakaselwa, kusho ukuthi ukufa kungagwenywa uma lezi zimo ezimbi zingagwenywa, ”usho kanje.

Ungafunda kabanzi ngomsebenzi kaDkt Zitter encwadini yakhe, Izindlela Ezingaphezulu Kakhulu.

Manje ithini leyo datha?

Ngenkathi isifo senhliziyo nomdlavuza kuhlangene kwenza zonke izimbangela zokufa e-United States, lezi zimo ezimbili zezempilo zingaphansi kwengxenye yesine yalokho okuhlanganiswe ngabezindaba.

Ngakho-ke ngenkathi lezi zimo ezimbili zakha ingxenye enkulu yalokho okusibulalayo, akusikho ukuthi kufakwa ezindabeni.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi lomkhakha, ubuphekula bungaphansi kwamaphesenti ayi-0.1 okufa, yize kubumba amaphesenti angama-31 okusakazwa kwezindaba. Eqinisweni, ivezwe ngokweqile izikhathi ezingama-3,900.

Okwamanje, yize ubuphekula, umdlavuza, nokubulawa kwabantu kuyizimbangela zokufa okukhulunywa ngazo kakhulu emaphephandabeni, munye kuphela osezimbangela ezintathu eziphezulu zokufa kwabantu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubulawa kuphindwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwezingama-30 kwabezindaba, kepha kubalwa kuphela iphesenti elilodwa lokufa okuphelele.

Ukukhathazeka kwethu kwehluke kakhulu emaqinisweni

Njengoba kuvela, izimbangela esizikhathazayo ngokusibulala - okukhonjiswa yilokho esiyi-Google kakhulu - akuvamisile ukuhambisana nalokho okugulisa abaseMelika.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, izimpawu ze-Googling noma izinto ezingaba khona ezingasibulala ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngalezi zinto nodokotela kungadala ukukhathazeka. Lokhu kungasusa umsele ongafanele 'kuthiwani uma kunjalo' njengokuthi "Kuthiwani uma lokhu nalokho kwenzeka?" "Kuthiwani uma ngingakulungele?" noma "Kuthiwani uma ngifa ngishiya umndeni wami ngemuva?"

Futhi le micabango engakhathazeki ingenza uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa lushayele ngokweqile, lubeke impendulo yomzimba yokucindezela, eyaziwa nangokuthi "ukulwa noma ukundiza." Lapho umzimba ungena kulesi simo, inhliziyo ishaya ngokushesha okukhulu, ukuphefumula kuya ngokuya kujule, nesisu sishaye.

Akukona nje kuphela ukungaphatheki kahle emzimbeni, kepha kungathinta nempilo yakho ngokomzimba ngokunyusa umfutho wegazi, ukushaya kwenhliziyo, nokwehlisa ukusebenza kwamasosha omzimba.

Manje, buyela kudatha…

Kungabonakala ukuthi ngenkathi kufanele sigxile esifweni senhliziyo - esibhekene nokufa kwabantu abangamaphesenti angama-31 - ngamaphesenti ama-3 kuphela abantu abasesha kuGoogle.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuseshwa komdlavuza akuhambelani nethuba lokuthola lesi sifo. Ngenkathi umdlavuza wenza ingxenye enkulu yokufa - amaphesenti angama-28 - ubala amaphesenti angama-38 walokho okuseshwe kuGoogle.

Isifo sikashukela, naso, sivela emiphumeleni yakwaGoogle (amaphesenti ayi-10) kakhulu kunesibangela ukufa (amaphesenti ama-3 wokufa okuphelele).

Khonamanjalo, ukuzibulala kunesabelo esilinganayo esiphindwe kaningana emehlweni omphakathi uma kuqhathaniswa nezinga lokufa langempela. Ngenkathi kuphela amaphesenti ama-2 okufa kwabantu e-United States ngokuzibulala, kwenza amaphesenti ayi-10 walokho abezindaba abagxile kukho namaphesenti ayi-12 walokho abantu abakufunayo kuGoogle.

Kepha kunezindaba ezinhle - asihlali njalo singekho

Ngaphandle kokwehluka okusobala mayelana nokuthi yini ebangela ukufa uma kuqhathaniswa nezimbangela zokufa ezibikiwe, eminye imibono yethu empeleni ilungile.

I-Stroke, ngokwesibonelo, yenza amaphesenti ama-5 okufa futhi kumaphesenti ayi-6 okusakazwa kwezindaba nokuseshwa kweGoogle. I-pneumonia nomkhuhlane, nakho, kuyafana kuwo womathathu amashadi, okubalwa ngamaphesenti ama-3 okufa kanye namaphesenti ama-4 wakho kokubili ukugxila kwabezindaba nokuseshwa kwe-Google.

Yize kungahle kungabonakali njengokuyinto enkulu ukuqonda ngokuqinile amaqiniso alokho okusibangela ukuba sife, kunezinzuzo ezithile ezingokwengqondo nezingokomzimba ezivela kulokhu kwazi.

Ukuqonda izingozi zezempilo nokukhathazeka kwezokuphepha kungasisiza silungiselele kangcono imiphumela ebingalindelekile, engazizwa inika amandla - njengokuthatha izinyathelo zokuvikela isifo senhliziyo.

Uma wazi ngezinto ezinobungozi, ungaphinda ufune induduzo kochwepheshe bezokunakekelwa kwezempilo abangakwazi ukuphendula imibuzo futhi banikeze isiqiniseko. Isibonelo, umuntu okhathazekile ngomdlavuza angathola izikrini ezingeziwe zezempilo kudokotela wabo, ezingabasiza ukuthi babhekele inhlalakahle yabo.

Ngakho-ke ngokuzayo lapho uzithola ukhathazeka ngombiko wezindaba osanda kuwufunda noma isifo osanda kufunda ngaso kepha uyiGoogling ngo-3 ekuseni, thatha isinyathelo emuva ubheke ukuthi ngabe ngempela udinga ukukhathazeka.

Ukuqonda okungcono ngokufa kusivumela ukuthi samukele ukuqonda okungcono ngempilo yethu kanye nempilo yethu, ngakho-ke singaba nakho - zonke izinyathelo zendlela.

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