UClaire Holt Wabelane nge "Injabulo Eqisayo Nokungabaza" Eza Nomama

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Umlingisi wase-Australia uClaire Holt ube ngumama okokuqala ngenyanga edlule ngemuva kokubeletha indodana yakhe, uJames Holt Joblon. Ngenkathi lo mfana oneminyaka engama-30 engaphezu kwenyanga ngokuba ngumama wokuqala, usanda kuthatha ku-Instagram ukuze abelane ngokuthi ubunzima bomama bungaba kanjani.

Ku-selfie engokomzwelo, uHolt ubonakala ephethe ingane yakhe ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe. Kulesi sihloko, uchaze ukuthi wayengeke akwazi ukuzibamba kodwa azizwe "ehluliwe" ngemuva kokuzabalaza ukuncelisa ingane yakhe ibele. (Related: Ukuvuma Kwalomfazi Okudabukisayo Ngokuncelisa Ibele Kungu-#SoReal)

"Nginezikhathi eziningi ezinjengalezi selokhu kwafika indodana yami," eqhubeka. "Engikukhathazayo kakhulu wukuqinisekisa ukuthi izidingo zakhe ziyahlangatshezwa, kodwa ngiye ngibe nomuzwa wokuthi ngiyasilela. Ukuba ngumama kuyinhlanganisela enkulu yenjabulo nokuzithemba."

UHolt wengeze ngokuthi uzama ngakho konke okusemandleni ukubuyela emuva futhi azenzele lula ngalezi zikhathi ezinzima. “Ngizama ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi angikwazi ukuphelela,” ubhale kanje. "Angeke ngibe yikho konke kuwo wonke umuntu. Kumele ngenze konke okusemandleni ami futhi ngikuthathe ihora elilodwa ngesikhathi ... AmaMamas laphaya, angitshele ukuthi angingedwa ??" (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane abayi-6 bahlanganyela ukuthi bakwenza kanjani ukuba ngumama kanye nemikhuba yabo yokusebenza)

Ukuba ngumama kungaba nomvuzo omangalisayo, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi kulula noma kuhamba kahle. Abanye baze bakholelwe ukuthi kukhona "uhlangothi olumnyama" ekukhulelweni nokuba ngumama, okuyinto abantu abaningi abangakhululekile ukuxoxa ngayo noma ukuyivuma.

Kepha omama abaningi bebesezicathulweni zikaHolt futhi bazi kahle ukuthi uzizwa kanjani.Eqinisweni, omama abaningana abadumile babelane ngokusekela kwabo umlingisi esigabeni sokuphawula sokuthunyelwe kwakhe kwe-IG.

"Ngizinikeze izinsuku ezimbili ekhefini esontweni lokuqala ukuze ngingasabi futhi ngiphatheke kabi njalo uma evuka ezondla," kuphawula u-Amanda Seyfried. "Futhi kusizile kakhulu. Alikho icala. Vele upompe nebhodlela. Bese wenza konke phakathi nakho konke. Ingcindezi encane. Awuwedwa."

"Hlala lapho mama! Umsebenzi onzima futhi onomvuzo omkhulu," kubhala uJamie-Lynn Sigler. "Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi lawo mahomoni adlala ngenhliziyo nasekhanda lakho. Awuwedwa. Kuyingxenye yale nqubo enzima kakhulu. Sikuthumelela lonke uthando."

Ngisho nowayengumodeli oyimfihlo kaVictoria's Secret, uMiranda Kerr, wangena wathi: "Angingedwa ngokuphelele! Ngokwejwayelekile ukuzizwa ngale ndlela. Ukuthumela uthando."

Ezizwa enokwazisa, uHolt wabe esebelana ngokunye okuthunyelwe, ezwakalisa indlela abonga ngayo ngayo yonke impendulo evela emphakathini wakhe we-Instagram.

“Ngishaqekile ngalo lonke uthando engiluthole ngemuva kokubhala kwami ​​okokugcina,” kubhala yena. "Ngikhunjuzwa ukwesekwa okumangalisayo okuza nokwabelana ngezikhathi ezisengozini."

“Ngizizwa sengathi ngiyingxenye yesizwe esihle—sonke sikulokhu ndawonye,” eqhubeka. "Ngiyabonga ngokungisiza ngizizwe ngijwayelekile. Ukwabelana ngezindaba zakho. Kungiduduze kakhulu." (Okuhlobene: Ukuthi Umama Wayishintsha Kanjani Indlela UHilary Duff Esebenza Ngayo)

NjengoHolt wabhala kokuthunyelwe kwakhe kokuqala, ukuba ngumama kungaba yinto ejabulisayo futhi ekhungathekisayo. Ngosuku ngalunye olubi oluza nomama, usuku oluhle cishe luzoba khona ekhoneni. Konke kumayelana nokuthola ibhalansi phakathi kwakho kokubili, futhi okuthunyelwe kukaHolt kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo kubo bonke omama ukuthi kukhona endleleni efanele, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungase kubonakale kunamatshe kangakanani okwamanje.

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