Iba Ne-Orgasm Emangazayo: Yenza Ukubalwa Kobulili Bomuntu Oyedwa

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Ukuba nobugovu embhedeni ngokuvamile kubhekwa njengento embi. Kepha ukuze ube ne-orgasm enhle impela, kufanele ukhululeke futhi unethezeke ngomzimba wakho. Futhi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokwenza lokho ukukhipha umfana ku-equation futhi uchithe isikhathi esithile ezicabangela wena wedwa. Yebo-sikhuluma ngokushaya indlwabu.

"Enye yezinzuzo ezinkulu zokushaya indlwabu (ngaphandle kenjabulo, kunjalo!) Ukuthi abesifazane bafunda okwengeziwe ngalokho okubajabulisayo," kusho isazi sezocansi u-Emily Morse, ophethe i-Sex With Emily podcast. "Lapho ukwazi lokho ngokwengeziwe, lapho ungabelana ngokwengeziwe nomlingani wakho, futhi lapho ungalawula ngokwengeziwe ukwaneliseka kwakho nenjabulo yakho." (Ungakhohlwa ukubheka ezinye izeluleko zethu zokuthuthukisa i-O yakho, kuqala ngo- # 1: Stop Faking It!)

Amathuba ukuthi usuvele uyakwenza, ngakho-ke asizimisele ukukunikeza uJudy Blume-esque 101. Lokho kusho ukuthi, kukhona ama-tweaks amancane ongawenza esimisweni sakho esijwayelekile angathatha izikhathi zakho zodwa ezingeni elilandelayo, futhi usize nokuthuthukisa ama-orgasms onawo lapho unquma ukuletha umfana ekuxubeni. Nakhu ukuqala.

Yehlisa Ijubane

Kwesinye isikhathi, ufisa i-orgasm esheshayo, elula. Futhi lezo zingamangalisa. Kepha uma inhloso yakho ingumvuthwandaba onamandla kakhulu, kuyakhokhela ukuqala kancane. ULauren Streicher, MD, umbhali we Ucansi RX, uncoma ukwenza ezinye zezinto ezifanayo ongazenza ngaphambi kokuba umatasa nomfana omusha: Vula umculo onomdlandla, shelela izingubo zangaphansi owaziyo ukuthi ubukeka ushisa, ufunda inkanuko noma ubuke izithombe zocansi… Impela, kungenzeka uzizwe uphoqelekile ekuqaleni, kodwa umqondo uwukwenza nje izinto ezenza uzizwe ngempela, zivuliwe ngempela ngaphambi kokuqala ukuzithinta. Ukushaya indlwabu kancane kungenye into ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe (yenza imibhede, iwashe, zithinte…), kungcono, kusho uStreicher.

Indlela, Phansi

Kulungile, manje usungabamba leso sidlidlizi (noma isandla, umcamelo, noma yini enye ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa ukuze uzikhiphe). Kodwa futhi, hamba kancane, futhi uhlanganise izinto kancane. "Shintsha ingcindezi nendlela othinta ngayo i-clitoris yakho," kusikisela uMorse. "Uma uhlala uhamba ngokuyindilinga, zama ukuya phambili naphambili, noma uthephe kancane." Ungathola ezinye izindawo ezintsha oya kuwena noma ukuhambisa ukuze usebenze ku-repertoire yakho evamile. (Funda ukuthi isitayela sakho sokushaya indlwabu sithini ngawe.) Uma usondela kuvuthondaba, buyela emuva kancane kuze kube yilapho umuzwa usuphelile, bese uqala futhi. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuthi ukuhlela, futhi lapho ekugcineni uzivumela ukuthi udlule emaphethelweni, i-orgasm yakho izoba namandla kakhulu, ibe namandla kakhulu.

Mnike uBonisa

Uma uzizwa ukhululekile, cabanga ukushaya indlwabu phambi komlingani wakho. Lokhu kuwukuwina, kusho u-Streicher: Amadoda amaningi acabanga ukuthi kuyashisa ukubuka, futhi ngenkathi uzinakekela, azokwazi ukubona ukuthi yini oyithandayo ngempela-futhi angase athathe ngisho nezinkomba ezithile angakwazi. sebenzisa kamuva, uma wenza ucansi lwe-P-in-V. (Bese uzama lezi ezinye eziyisithupha ze-Kinky Upgrades for Your Sex Life.)

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