Yini i-Oedipus Complex

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• Ziyini izigaba ze-Oedipus Complex
• Yini inkinga ye-Oedipus engaxazululwa kahle?

Isakhiwo se-Oedipus umqondo ovikelwe yi-psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, obhekisa esigabeni sokukhula kwengane ngokobulili, esibizwa ngokuthi isigaba sobudoda, lapho aqala khona ukuzizwa efisa ukuba nobaba wobulili obuhlukile nentukuthelo nomhawu ngento yobulili obufanayo.

Ngokusho kukaFreud, isigaba sobudoda senzeka eminyakeni yobudala eneminyaka emithathu, lapho ingane iqala ukubona ukuthi ayisona isikhungo somhlaba nokuthi uthando lwabazali alugcini ngabo kuphela, kodwa futhi luyabiwa phakathi kwabo. Kulesi sigaba, lapho umfana eqala ukuthola isitho sakhe sangasese, asiphathe njalo, okuvame ukungavunyelwa ngabazali, okwenza umfana abe nokwesaba ukuthenwa, kumenze abuyele kulolo thando nesifiso sikanina, ngoba ubaba uyimbangi ephakeme kakhulu kunaye.

Lesi yisigaba esinqumayo sokuziphatha kwakho lapho usumdala, ikakhulukazi maqondana nempilo yakho yezocansi.

Ziyini izigaba ze-Oedipus Complex

Cishe eminyakeni emithathu ubudala, umfana uqala ukunamathela kakhulu kunina, amfune yena yedwa, kepha lapho ethola ukuthi ubaba naye uyamthanda umama wakhe, uzizwa eyimbangi yakhe, ngoba umfuna kuphela ngokwakhe, ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa kwakho. Njengoba ingane ingakwazi ukuqeda imbangi yayo, engubaba, ingaqala ukungalaleli, futhi ibe nesimo sengqondo sokulwa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho umfana engena esigabeni sobudoda, uqala ukuqondisa intshisekelo yakhe nelukuluku elithinta isitho sakhe sangasese, esingaqondwa ngabazali, ngoba usisebenzisa kalula, okuyinto evame ukungamukelwa yibo, okwenza-ukubuyela kulokho uthando nesifiso sikamama, ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthenwa, ngoba ubaba uyimbangi ephakeme kakhulu kunaye.

Ngokusho kukaFreud, kulesigaba lapho abafana namantombazane bekhathazekile ngomehluko wokwakheka phakathi kobulili. Amantombazane aba nomona ngesitho sowesilisa bese abafana besaba ukuthenwa, ngoba bacabanga ukuthi ipipi lentombazane lisikiwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, intombazane, lapho ithola ukungabi bikho kwepipi, izizwa iphansi futhi isola umama, ikhulise umuzwa wenzondo.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane iqala ukwazisa izimfanelo zikababa, imlingisa imikhuba yakhe futhi lapho ekhula eba ngumuntu omdala, umfana uyahlukaniswa nonina futhi azimele, aqale ukuba nentshisekelo kwabanye besifazane.

Izimpawu ezifanayo zingenzeka ezinganeni zesifazane, kepha umuzwa wesifiso uvela maqondana nobaba nalowo wentukuthelo nomhawu maqondana nomama. Emantombazaneni, lesi sigaba sibizwa nge-Electra Complex.

Yini inkinga ye-Oedipus engaxazululwa kahle?

Amadoda ahluleka ukunqoba i-Oedipus complex angaba namandla futhi athuthukise ukwesaba, futhi abesifazane bangathola isimilo sokuziphatha samadoda. Bobabili bangaba ngabantu abapholile nabanamahloni ngokobulili, futhi bangaba nemizwa yokuzenyeza nokwesaba ukungamukelwa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kukaFreud, kujwayelekile ukuthi lapho inxanxathela ye-Oedipus yelulwa ibe yindala, ingaqubula ubungqingili besilisa noma besifazane.