Isihogo Somntwana Emhlabeni: Nginqobe Kanjani Intukuthelo Yengane Yami eHhovisi LikaDokotela

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• Ingane yami encane, udokotela wezingane kanye nokuhlushwa
• Ukusebenza kabusha isu lokuvakasha likadokotela
• Ukwamukela awuyena umzali omubi ngoba ingane yakho iyakhala

Angazi ngawe, kodwa lapho ngiba ngumama, ngangicabanga ukuthi kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba ngibe namahloni futhi.

Ngiqonde ukuthi, isizotha sami uqobo siphume ngewindi ngokubeletha. Futhi lokho okuncane engangikugcinile kwaqhutshwa ngokuncelisa ingane yami yokuqala ibele. Kwaqedwa nya ngomzuzwana wami (ingane yayidinga ukudla noma nini nanoma kuphi lapho sasinomfowabo omkhulu, ngisho nangezinsuku ezinomoya onamandla lapho amakhava onesi enqaba ukusebenzisana).

Bese kuba khona inhlanzeko yomuntu siqu. Njengoba wazi, uma usanda kuzalwa, umbozwe kakhulu nge-pee, poop, spit-up, futhi uNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi yini enye kulezo zinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala. Laliyini lelo phunga? Mhlawumbe yimina.

Futhi masingakhohlwa ukuncibilika komphakathi ngezikhathi ezithile okubangelwa ukusuthisa sekwedlule isikhathi noma ukulala.

Kepha konke lokhu kuyingxenye yokuba ngumzali, akunjalo? Kwesokudla. Akukho ongakubona lapha, bantu.

Ingane yami encane, udokotela wezingane kanye nokuhlushwa

Engangingakulungele kwaba ukwethuka okuphindaphindiwe nokwenziwa okubi kokuyisa ingane yami kudokotela - noma, ikakhulukazi, ukuthatha encane kudokotela.

Lapho unengane, ulindele ukuthi ikhale lapho ihlangana, iqhutshwa futhi ihlolwa. Ujwayele ukukhothwa, ukukitazwa, nokuqabulwa. Ngakho-ke, ngokwemvelo, lokhu kuphambuka okwesabekayo kusuka kokujwayelekile kuyinto engathandeki, ukusho okuncane.

Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze ukumthulisa kamnandi futhi umduduze futhi, uma uncelisa, unamathisele umchamo emlonyeni wakhe, futhi konke kulungile ngomhlaba futhi.Eqinisweni, mhlawumbe uzoshintshanisa nokumamatheka okwaziyo nodokotela wezingane: Izingane! Yini ongayenza? Futhi bheka ukuthi muhle kanjani, noma ememeza!

Ukukhala kosana, noma kunjalo, akuzona ezithandekayo.

Cha, esikhundleni sengane emnandi, ezwakala kalula, unengane enesihogo, onenkani, othanda imibono, onamahloni ongakabi nawo amagama okuziveza kahle kodwa oneZIMBONO eziningi. O, futhi sengishilo yini ukuthi izinsana nazo zikhahlela - kanzima?

Angikwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi kwenzekani kulesi simo lapho unamawele. Yebo, empeleni ngiyakwazi, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi omama bamawele bafanelwe izindondo zangempela ngoba lokho kuzwakala njengezinga lesishiyagalolunye lokuhlushwa esihogweni khona lapho.

Kepha buyela kimi nengane yami eyodwa engaziphathi kahle. Njengabazali, siyazi ukuthi izingane ezisencane azikwazi ukuzilawula ngokweqiniso, ukuthi zonke zi-id (isifiso), ukuthi zisesezinsukwini zazo zokufunda futhi nje zifunda ukwenza emhlabeni.

Kepha kungani bekwenza lokhu?! Kufanele bazi kangcono! Singabazali abahle, futhi sibafundise kangcono.

Futhi ingabe yimi nje, noma lowo dokotela omuhle ngokuzumayo wahlulela ngokuphelele? Mhlawumbe noma mhlawumbe akunjalo, kodwa impela kuzwakala kanjalo lapho uzama ukwenza ingane yakho encane ihlale inganyakazi futhi IYEKE UKUKHANGANISA. Ngabe ingane yakho icabanga ukuthi udokotela uzokwenzani, imlimaze futhi imgwaze ngento ebukhali?

O, linda. Yebo, yilokho kanye okuzokwenzeka, futhi izingane ziyakhumbula. Izingane zinomuzwa ojulile wokuzivikela, okuyinto enhle impela uma ucabanga ngakho. Akukwenzi ukwehliswa kwemali kube kuncane okwamanje. Kepha kuyasiza ukukhumbula le factoid ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho ugoqene kusofa usesimweni somntwana, ubheka ngokweqile i- "This Is Us" futhi uminzise izinsizi zakho kumaCheetos.

Ukusebenza kabusha isu lokuvakasha likadokotela

Ngemuva kwesiqephu esisodwa sokuzisola, ngaba ne-epiphany: Kungani ungenzi uhambo oluya ehhovisi likadokotela lube mnandi? Yebo, JABULA. Uma ngingaveza ngandlela thile isipiliyoni bese ngifaka amandla ezandleni zengane yami, kungaguqula izinto.

Ngakho-ke, ngosuku olulandelayo, ngabekisa izincwadi ezazikhuluma ngokuvakashelwa udokotela. Kuhle kakhulu lonke uchungechunge oludumile lunayo eyodwa (cabanga: “Sesame Street,” “Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood,” ne- “The Berenstain Bears”). Uma ingane yami encane ingabona ukuthi abalingiswa bayo ebathandayo baye kudokotela futhi akukho okubi okwenzekile, mhlawumbe ibingengethuka kangako.

Kwakunganele, noma kunjalo. Wayedinga okuthile okubambekayo. Ngakho-ke, ngamtholela ikethi kadokotela wamathoyizi esiqale ukudlala ngayo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Sishintshe izindima zabadokotela / zeziguli, futhi saba negumbi lokulinda lonke eligcwele iziguli zezilwane ezigcwele ezazizosimangalela ngokuphelele ngokungaziphathi kahle uma babengabantu bangempela. Wayeyithanda, nami ngokunjalo, noma ngabe wayenomdlandla omncane ngokuhlola ukucabanga kwami.

Bengizizwa nginokuzethemba okuhle kepha ngisenovalo ngenkathi ukuhlolwa kwakhe okulandelayo kuzungeza. Futhi ngomzuzu wokugcina, ngibeke ikhithi ngaphansi kwesihambahamba sayithatha sahamba nayo. Lokho kwaba ngukhiye wangempela.

Ngenkathi edlala udokotela eceleni kukadokotela wangempela, ukukhathazeka kwakhe kwaphela. Ngenkathi udokotela emhlola, indodana yami yalalela ukushaya kwenhliziyo kadokotela nge-stethoscope yakhe. Wabe esebheka ezindlebeni zikadokotela, wenza sengathi uyamdubula, wamfaka nebhandishi, njalo njalo. Bekuthandeka, kepha ngaphezulu kwephuzu, kumphazamise ngokuphelele kulokho udokotela abekwenza empeleni.

Impela, wayesakhala kancane lapho ethola isibhamu sakhe, kodwa kwakungelutho uma kuqhathaniswa nokukhala okuhlukumezekile kokuqokwa kukadokotela kwangaphambilini. Futhi, ukukhala kuyeke ngokushesha okukhulu njengoba ephinde waphazamiseka ngokudlala udokotela. Impumelelo!

Ukwamukela awuyena umzali omubi ngoba ingane yakho iyakhala

Emva kwalokho, ngangikwazi ukuphakamisa ikhanda lami futhi lapho ngiya ehhovisi likadokotela wezingane. Ngangingeyisehluleki njengomzali, nodokotela ekugcineni wakubona lokho. Yebo, mina!

Ngabona nokuthi le kwakuyinto ewubuwula ukuba namahloni ngayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke lokhu bekuyi- encane besikhuluma ngakho. Ngafunga ukuthi angisoze ngaphoxeka ngodaba lokuba ngumzali futhi.

Hhe, yebo, leso sifungo saphuma ngefasitela ngokushesha okukhulu ... lapho indodana yami isiqalile ukukhuluma ngokucacile ngemisho ephelele, engaxutshiwe, engafanele, nebeka abanye icala. Kepha bekukuhle ngenkathi iqhubeka!

Ngabe ingane yakho encane ikuthola kunzima ukuya kudokotela? Uyiphatha kanjani? Yabelana ngamathiphu akho namasu kimi kumazwana!

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