Ukuvikela Amandla Akho Ngenkathi Ulwa Nobandlululo

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• Amasu okuhlala uqinile
• Yakha isu lakho
• Hlela isikhathi sokuvuselela
• Beka imingcele
• Shayela ukuqiniswa
• Khumbula ukunqoba kwakho
• Bamba injabulo yakho
• Okuza kuqala kuwe

Lo msebenzi awumuhle noma awunethezekile. Ingakuphula uma uyivumela.

Ngamagagasi akamuva okuphathwa ngesihluku kwamaphoyisa emphakathini wami oMnyama, angilalanga kahle. Ingqondo yami igijima yonke imizuzu yansuku zonke ngemicabango ekhathazayo neqhutshwa isenzo:

Ngizokulwa kanjani lokhu?

Uma ngibhikisha, yimiphi imiphumela engaba khona kimi njengowesifazane omnyama onesikhumba esimnyama?

Hlobo luni lokuvikelwa kwezomthetho enginalo?

Ngabe nginikele ngokwanele?

Ngabe ngiyiphendulile yonke imiyalezo yokungena evela kubangani bami?

Ngabe ngithumele izixhumanisi zama-athikili kubangane abangewona abaMnyama abafuna ukuvala ukulwa nobumnyama?

Ngidlile namhlanje?

Akumangazi ukuthi bengilokhu ngivuswa yikhanda usuku ngalunye lokuvukela.

Bengilokhu ngibambe kanzima ngesikhathi sobhadane oluphazamise impilo njengoba sazi. Leli gciwane belibulala umphakathi wakithi ngamazinga angapheli, kanti nobaba wami uyelulama ku-COVID-19.

Ngemuva kwesigameko sakamuva sokubulawa kwabantu ngesihluku sabantu abaMnyama abangahlomile futhi abangenacala, ngemuva kwezizukulwane zemibhikisho elwa nobuphekula basekhaya obulwa nabamnyama, umhlaba ubukeka uvulelekile ekutheni kungenzeka izimpilo zabantu abaMnyama zibaluleke.

Isikhathi esihle sokuphila.

Yize ngenze umsebenzi wami wobungcweti nobuntu ukulwela ukulingana nokunikezwa amandla kwabantu abaNsundu neminye imiphakathi enebala, ngilwa nokuzikhandla futhi ngithole ibhalansi. Yize ngazi ukuthi angifanele, ngihlala ngizibuza ukuthi ngenza yini ngokwanele.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngezinye izikhathi ngiba nemizwa engafani ngomsebenzi wami.

Amasu amasu, omdlalo omude wokulwa nokucwasa angazizwa enobugovu futhi enelungelo lapho ngibona abantu abaMnyama bebulawa nsuku zonke.

Umlando ungitshela ukuthi imizamo yobumbano oluvela kulabo abazibiza “ngabalingani” kuzoba umjikelezo wokungakholelwa kwabo, intukuthelo, okuthunyelwe okungenalutho kokuxhumana nomphakathi, iminikelo yesikhathi esisodwa ezinhlanganweni zabamnyama, nokukhathala okuntekenteke.

Noma kunjalo, ngiyazi ukuthi ukuncothula ukulwa nobuMnyama nezinye izinhlobo zobandlululo kudinga sonke. Ngilwa nalokhu njengoba ngizama ukunakekela impilo yami yengqondo. Ngenkathi ngifisa ukusho ukuthi ngiphumelela ngokungenaphutha ekuvikeleni amandla ami kule mpi, ngiyazi ukuthi angisiye.

Amasu okuhlala uqinile

Ezikhathini zami ezingcono, ngithole amasu alandelayo esiza kakhulu. Ngibanikeza noma ngubani ofuna ngobuqotho ukuzinikezela ekuqedeni ubandlululo impilo yakhe yonke.

Yakha isu lakho

Ukuqaqa ukulwa nobumnyama nezinye izinhlobo zobandlululo kusho ukuthi uphonsela inselelo ngamabomu futhi ungafundi yonke imilayezo eyinkinga oyitholile evela kumafilimu, izincwadi, imfundo, nezingxoxo ezingajwayelekile nabangane, umndeni kanye nabalingani.

Kusho ukuthi uzobe ucabanga ngokugxeka ngalokho okholelwa kukho ngohlanga lwakho kanye nezinhlanga zabanye ekufakazeni ukuthi ngubani onamandla ezikhungweni zethu futhi ongenalo.

Lo msebenzi awumuhle noma awunethezekile. Ingakuphula uma uyivumela.

Thatha isikhathi sokucabanga ngamandla akho nokuthi ahlangana kanjani necebo lakho lesikhashana noma lesikhathi eside. Abahleli, izishoshovu, othisha, kanye nezinsizakalo bonke banezindima zabo okufanele bazidlale. Uma amandla akho engokwezimali, shintsha iminikelo yakho izinhlangano eziphikisana nokucwasa.

Uma uyisishoshovu, cabanga ngezikhala zokuphonsela inselelo njalo ubandlululo olumelene nabamnyama, kungaba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, emsebenzini wakho, noma kusoseshini wabazali nothisha. Qhubeka uzwakalise izingqinamba ezingathandeki.

Hlela isikhathi sokuvuselela

Lokhu mhlawumbe kungenye yezibophezelo ezinzima kakhulu emsebenzini wokulwa nobandlululo, kodwa kuyadingeka impela.

Okokuqala, yamukela ukuthi awukwazi ukulwa nanoma iyiphi impi engenalutho. Kuyisidina kuwe nakwabanye. Kubuye kube isu lokulahlekelwa.

Unelungelo lokusebenzisa izinsuku zakho zempilo yengqondo, izinsuku zokugula, noma izinsuku zeholide ukwenza kabusha noma ngabe ubona kukufanele. Uma udinga ukuqhubeka nalolo hambo obelukade ulubeka eceleni, udle i-Netflix, upheke ukudla okumnandi, noma umane usizi, zinike isikhathi sakho.

Ngoba cishe awujwayele ukuzinakekela ngamabomu ngale ndlela, kwenze umkhuba njalo. Hlela isikhathi ekhalendeni lakho, bese uzama ukunamathela kuso ngangokunokwenzeka.

Beka imingcele

Kubalulekile ukuthi ucacelwe ukuthi yini futhi engasifanele isikhathi sakho namandla akho njengoba uzinikela kakhulu ekulweni nobandlululo. Lokho kusho ukuzijayeza ukuthi cha kubantu, izimbangela, nemisebenzi ethatha isikhathi kude nomsebenzi wokulwa nokucwasa.

Ungafunda ukuthi cha futhi uqondise kabusha labo abafuna ukuthi ukhiphe okutholakele kwabo muva nje kokucwasana kwabantu abamnyama nezinye izinhlobo zokucindezelwa. Ungafunda ukuthi cha kuma-troll ezinkundla zokuxhumana afuna ukukufaka engxabanweni yokulahlekelwa.

Kungase kudingeke ukuthi ususe ngokuphelele izinhlelo zakho zokusebenza zemidiya yokuxhumana nabantu, noma okungenani usuke kuzo isikhathi eside. KULUNGILE ukuthatha ikhefu.

Shayela ukuqiniswa

Omunye wemiphumela eminingi yobandlululo ukuthi abantu abanebala elimhlophe bashiywe yindima ekhathazayo yokufundisa abelungu.

Uma ufaka ukulwa nobumnyama nokufaka imibala kule ngxubevange, abantu abaningi abaMnyama baphoqeleka ukuba babe nguthisha (phakathi kokuhlukumezeka ngokobuhlanga) kuyilapho abantu abamhlophe bevinjelwe ocwaningweni lwabo, ekuboniseni nasekwenzeni kwabo.

Shayela ku-reinforcements! Uma kukhona abangani obaziyo, osebenza nabo, noma osebenza nabo abazibiza ngabalingani bobuzwe, bacele ukuthi banciphise ngokuzayo lapho uzithola usesikhundleni sokuba ngumkhulumeli noma uthisha. Dlulisela phambili ama-imeyili owatholile ngezinsizakusebenza ezingeziwe zokulwa nobandlululo.

Thumela izimemo zabalingani bakho ukuba basebenze kumakomidi wokulingana ngokobuhlanga akushe waphela amandla. Yisho ngokusobala ukuthi kungani uqondisa kabusha abantu.

Khumbula ukunqoba kwakho

Ubandlululo lungene kakhulu endwangweni yempilo yaseMelika kangangokuthi noma ikuphi ukunqotshwa okuphikisana nakho, noma ngabe kuphasiswa umthetho, kususwa izithombe zeConfederate, noma ekugcineni ukuqeqeshwa kwenkampani yakho ngendlela yokuxoxa ngobandlululo, kungazizwa njengethonsi ebhakedeni.

Endleleni yakho yamasu wokuqhubeka nomsebenzi wokulwa nobandlululo, qiniseka ukuthi ugcina umkhondo ngokunqoba kwakho. Akukho win okuncane kakhulu ukugqamisa, futhi ngakunye kubalulekile ekwakheni ukuqina kwakho.

Ukunqoba kwakho kubalulekile, njengawo wonke umsebenzi owenzayo.

Bamba injabulo yakho

Thatha isikhashana ucabange ngabantu, izindawo, noma okuhlangenwe nakho okukulethela injabulo enkulu, noma ngabe zinjani izimo. Kungaba yilungu lomndeni noma umngani othandekayo, ukudansa, ukuntweza olwandle, ukupheka, noma ukuba semvelweni.

Vala amehlo akho bese uzihambisa kwimemori yakho ejabulisa kakhulu yalolo lwazi uma ungakwazi ngokomzimba ukuba lapho. Hlala lapho inqobo nje uma udinga ukuzizwa usekelwe phansi. Vumela injabulo yakho ikongeze futhi ikusethele ekuqhubekeni kokulwa nobandlululo oluqhubekayo.

Okuza kuqala kuwe

Kulula ukukhathala njengoba sinqoba isiqongo esisodwa kuphela ukuthola esinye esisilindile ngakolunye uhlangothi. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuthatha ikhefu ukuze uvuselele futhi sizinakekele. Yindlela kuphela esingahlangabezana ngayo nesithiyo esilandelayo ngamandla ethu nokuzinikela kwethu okugcwele.

Khumbula ukuthi awukwazi ukuthulula kusuka enkomishini engenalutho, futhi wenza umsebenzi wakho omuhle kakhulu lapho usezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu.

Ukuzinika ukunakekelwa okudingayo futhi okukufanele kuyisenzo sokuguqula kukodwa.

UZahida Sherman uchwepheshe wokuhlukahluka nokufakwa obhala ngamasiko, ubuhlanga, ubulili, nokuba mdala. Uyi-nerd yomlando ne-rookie surfer. Mlandele Instagram futhi Twitter.