Konke Odinga Ukukwazi Ngamathoyizi Ocansi kanye Nezocansi

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• Woah, woah, woah, ungathola i-STI kuthoyizi locansi?
• Yiziphi izifo zocansi ezithathelwana ngale ndlela?
• I-bacterial vaginosis, imvubelo, nama-UTIs nakho kungadluliselwa
• Futhi uma i-butt ibandakanyekile, kanjalo nezinye izifo
• Futhi ungazisabalalisela wena i-STI (noma esinye isifo)
• Izinto ezibalulekile
• Okudingayo ukwazi ngamathoyizi ocansi angena ngaphakathi futhi angathandeki
• Uma wabelana ngethoyizi locansi, lenze ithoyizi lezocansi elingavumi
• Uma uzosebenzisa ithoyizi elinomhlwenga, sebenzisa ikhondomu
• Uwahlanza kanjani amathoyizi akho ocansi
• Ungasebenzisa futhi isicoci sethoyizi locansi
• Ungakhohlwa ukomisa ithoyizi lakho, bese ulibeka kahle
• Uwahlanza nini amathoyizi akho
• Ungabelana kanjani ngamathoyizi ngokuphepha nangokuziphatha phakathi kwabalingani
• Ungasebenzisi amathoyizi anezimbobo
• Geza amathoyizi angenasidingo
• Khuluma nabalingani bakho
• Okufanele ukwenze uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuchayeka nge-STI sekwenzekile
• Ukukhulelwa nakho kungaba yingozi (encane)
• Okubalulekile

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Woah, woah, woah, ungathola i-STI kuthoyizi locansi?

Impendulo emfushane: Yup!

Kepha zama ukungazidubi ngokweqile, awukwazi ngokuzenzekelayo thola isifo esithathelwana ngocansi (STI) kuthoyizi locansi.

Ukuthola i-STI kuthoyizi locansi, kufanele ukuthi lisetshenziswe ngumuntu obene-STI bese engahlanzwa kahle ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa.

"Akukhona ukuthi ithoyizi lezocansi ngokwalo likunikeza i-STI," kuchaza udokotela wezocansi waseMegan Stubbs, EdD. "Ukuthi ithoyizi locansi liyi-vector yokutheleleka."

Nakhu konke odinga ukukwazi.

Yiziphi izifo zocansi ezithathelwana ngale ndlela?

Noma iyiphi i-STI engasatshalaliswa ngokuya ocansini ingasatshalaliswa ngethoyi elihlanganyelwayo locansi - kufaka phakathi ama-STI asakazwa ngoketshezi lomzimba nalawo asakazwa ngokuxhumana kwesikhumba nesikhumba.

Uma kunegazi, isidoda, i-pre-cum, uketshezi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, noma olunye uketshezi lomzimba kuthoyizi locansi lomuntu A onesifo socansi esithwalwa uketshezi, bese ithoyizi locansi lihlangana nolwelwesi lwamafinyila lomuntu B, umuntu B angakwazi ngenwa igciwane.

Yize kungekho ukucwaninga ngalesi sihloko, ama-STI asakazeka esikhunjeni esikhunjeni noma ukuthintana kwezitho zobulili nakho kungasakazwa ngethoyi locansi.

Isibonelo, uma umlingani onesifo sokuqubuka kwe-herpes esebenzisa ithoyizi locansi, bese kuthi emizuzwini embalwa usebenzise ithoyizi elifanayo lobulili, kunethuba lokuthi leli gciwane lizodluliselwa kuwe.

I-bacterial vaginosis, imvubelo, nama-UTIs nakho kungadluliselwa

Akuzona izifo zocansi kuphela ezingadluliselwa ngamathoyizi ocansi.

"Ungathola nokutheleleka ngemvubelo, i-bacterial vaginosis, noma ukutheleleka ngomchamo kuthoyizi locansi," kusho uStubbs.

Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kwenzeka ngoba usebenzise ithoyizi locansi umuntu one-bacterial vaginosis noma ukutheleleka ngemvubelo alisebenzisile ngaphandle kokuba lihlanzwe kahle ngaphambi kokulisebenzisa.

Kepha noma omunye umuntu akunjalo ube nolunye lwalezi zifo, uma unesitho sangasese sowesifazane, amabhaktheriya avela ezingxenyeni zawo angalahla i-pH yakho yangasese futhi aholele ekutheleleni.

Uma usebenzisa ithoyizi locansi esinqeni sakho bese ulisebenzisa esithweni sakho sangasese (noma ezungeze ukuvuleka kwakho kwepenile), lokhu kungaholela kokunye kwalokhu kutheleleka.

Futhi uma i-butt ibandakanyekile, kanjalo nezinye izifo

Udaba lwe-fecal kanye nezinsalela ze-fecal kuyingcuphe evunywa indawo yonke yokudlala indunu.

Ngokuya nge, okulandelayo kungadluliselwa ngendle:

• i-hepatitis A, B, no-C
• izimuncagazi, kufaka phakathi UGiardia lamblia
• ama-amoebas emathunjini
• amabhaktheriya, kufaka phakathi Shigella, Salmonella, I-Campylobacter, futhi E. coli

Lokho kwenza lezi zifo zibe yingozi yocansi lwendunu.

Futhi lezi zingozi azipheli uma ithoyizi locansi lisetshenziselwa ukujabulisa i-derrière yakho, ngokungafani nepipi noma umunwe. (Yize ingozi yokusebenzisa ithoyizi locansi iphansi uma kuqhathaniswa nengozi yokusebenzisa umlomo wakho).

Futhi ungazisabalalisela wena i-STI (noma esinye isifo)

Ake sithi uthola i-bacterial vaginosis, sebenzisa isidlidlizi sakho, ungasihlambululi kahle, hamba ngemithi elwa namagciwane ukuze itheleleke bese iyasula, bese usebenzisa ithoyizi lezocansi futhi… kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uphinde uzitholele ithoyizi.

Yebo, ugh.

Okufanayo kuyasebenza kuma-STI wamagciwane. Isibonelo, uma une-gonorrhea yesitho sangasese sowesifazane, sebenzisa ithoyizi ngokuya ngaphakathi, bese ulisebenzisa ngokushesha ukuvuselela indunu yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi uzinike i-gonorrhea eyindunu. Ugh.

Izinto ezibalulekile

Ukuthi ungasidlulisela noma cha i-STI ngokusebenzisa ithoyizi locansi kuya, ngokwengxenye, ekutheni ungalihlanza ngokuphelele ithoyizi lapho uligeza.

Okudingayo ukwazi ngamathoyizi ocansi angena ngaphakathi futhi angathandeki

“Amathoyizi ocansi enziwe ngezinto ezimbiwa anezimbobo ezincane ezincane ezingabamba amagciwane, uthuli, insipho namakha ngisho nangemva kokukuhlanza,” kuchaza uchwepheshe wezenjabulo uCarly S., umsunguli weDildo noma uDildon’t.

Ukuhumusha: Ngisho insipho namanzi akukwazi ukuthola amathoyizi ocansi angenazintshisekelo ahlanzekile ngokuphelele ngamaphesenti ayi-100. Yikes.

Izinto ezihamba phambili zifaka:

• injoloba ye-thermoplastic (TPR)
• i-thermoplastic elastomer (TPE)
• i-latex
• i-polyvinyl chloride (i-PVC)
• injoloba yejeli

Amathoyizi ocansi angathandeki anga - uma uwahlanza kahle - angahlanzwa ngokuphelele.

“Umthetho omuhle… ukuthi uma kuphephile ukudla futhi upheke ngakho futhi ungakuthola ekhishini, kuyinto ephephile, engeyona into yokudlala ithoyizi locansi,” kusho uCarly S.

Izinto ezingekho emthethweni zifaka:

• abicah
• phumzi
• I-ABS plastic
• ingilazi
• insimbi engagqwali

Uma wabelana ngethoyizi locansi, lenze ithoyizi lezocansi elingavumi

Ngaleyo ndlela ungageza ithoyizi phakathi kwawo wonke amaqembu alisebenzisayo.

“Ungaphonsa futhi ikhondomu phezu kwento yokudlala bese ufaka ikhondomu entsha ngaphambi kokuba umlingani olandelayo alisebenzise,” kusho isazi sezocansi kanye nodokotela we-naturopathic uJordin Wiggins.

Ungakhathazeki: "Akudingeki uthengise ingalo nomlenze ukuze uthole ithoyizi elingelona elidliwayo," kusho uCarly S. Blush Novelties, ngokwesibonelo, wenza eminye imikhiqizo esezingeni eliphezulu, ephansi yamanani entengo.

Uma uzosebenzisa ithoyizi elinomhlwenga, sebenzisa ikhondomu

Noma ngabe usebenzisa wedwa noma nomlingani wakho, phonsa ikhondomu entsha kulowo mfana omubi njalo uma izothinta umuntu omusha - ikakhulukazi ikhondomu ye-latex, i-polyurethane, noma i-polyisoprene.

Amakhondomu enziwe ngesikhumba sezilwane awavikeli kuma-STI.

Uma usebenzisa amakhondomu e-latex, sebenzisa i-silicone noma i-lube elisuselwa emanzini njenge-Sliquid Sassy noma i-Uberlube - amafutha atholakala kuwoyela alulaza ubuqotho bekhondomu futhi adale izimbobo ezincane.

Kuyavunywa, kumathoyizi ezocansi awakhiwe njengendoda, ukubeka ikhondomu ngaphezulu kungaba… kubi.

“Zama ukubopha ikhondomu ngokusemandleni akho ukuze ugweme ukuxega ngokweqile,” kusho uCarly S. “Noma ungasebenzisa igilavu, noma isembozo saran esingenakudluliswa (le microwavable inezimbobo ezincane kuyo).”

Okwamathoyizi athile ocansi njengabahlukumezi bepenisi, noma kunjalo, ukubheja kwakho okuhle kakhulu ukuthola ithoyizi elihlukile ngomsebenzisi ngamunye.

"Abashayeli abaningi benziwa ngezinto zenjoloba ezinamaphaphu ngoba ithambe kakhulu, futhi abantu abaningi ngeke bathande ukuphulula isitho sabo sendoda ngento ezwakala sengathi iyitini," kusho uCarly S.

Kulungile!

Ngenkathi imibhangqwana eboshelwe uketshezi - i-AKA ngamabomu, ngokuvumelana, nangokwabelana ngamanzi uketshezi lomzimba - ingabelana nge-stroker akunankinga, uma ungaboshiwe uketshezi udinga ukuthola amathoyizi amabili ahlukene.

Enye indlela: Zama i-Hot Octopus Pulse Duo, i-stroker eyenziwe nge-silicone ne-ABS plastic.

Uwahlanza kanjani amathoyizi akho ocansi

Kungakhathalekile ukuthi yini into yokudlala yakho, kufanele ugeze leyo ngane ngaphambi nangemva kokuyisebenzisa. Ukuthi uyigeza kanjani kuncike kokuqukethwe.

“Qiniseka ukuthi insipho ithambile futhi ayigxilile,” kusho uWiggins. "Eminye imikhiqizo ingacasula isitho sakho sangasese."

Ngokwamathoyizi angenasidingo, angenazimoto, ukuphonsa ithoyizi kumshini wokuwasha izitsha nakho kungenzeka, ngokusho kukaStubbs.

"Asikhulumi ngokufaka ithoyizi ngesitsha se-lasagna izolo ebusuku," kusho uStubbs. "Yenza umthwalo wamathoyizi akho ocansi kuphela."

O, futhi ungasebenzisi okokuhlanza! Vumela amanzi afudumele agijime.

"Isiwashi sokuwasha izitsha singaqukatha amakhemikhali anephunga elimnandi aholele ekucasukeni noma ekuthelelekeni kubantu abanezicucu ezizwelayo," kusho uCarly S.

Ungasebenzisa futhi isicoci sethoyizi locansi

Ngokusho kukaCarly S., “Kungangcono empeleni ukusebenzisa into yokuhlanza ithoyizi elenzelwa emanzini kunokuyigeza ngensipho onayo, ngoba laba bahlanzayo bavame ukuba mnene kakhulu kunezinsipho eziningi zesandla.” Ngiyathokoza ukwazi!

Abahlanza amathoyizi ocansi abancomayo:

• I-Babeland Toy Cleaner
• I-Sliquid Shine
• We-Vibe Hlanza

UZoe Ligon (owaziwa njengoThongria ezinkundleni zokuxhumana), ofundisa ngocansi futhi ongumnikazi weSpectrumBoutique.com, okuyisitolo samathoyizi ocansi afundisayo, uncoma ukuthi uma usebenzisa i-cleaner, geza ithoyizi ngamanzi ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa ukugwema noma ikuphi ukucasuka.

Ungakhohlwa ukomisa ithoyizi lakho, bese ulibeka kahle

UStubbs uthi: “Ama-bacterium athanda umswakama ngakho-ke ngemuva kokuhlanza ithoyizi, wome kahle. Mane nje usule ithoyizi elomile ngethawula elihlanzekile noma ushiye amathoyizi phandle ukuze ome.

Bese uyigcina kahle. Kulezi zinsuku, iningi lamathoyizi wezocansi eza nezikhwama ze-satin ezibekiwe, ngakho-ke uma ithoyizi lakho liza nelilodwa, lisebenzise lelo.

Leso sikhwama sizovikela ithoyizi ekuqoqeni uthuli, imfucumfucu noboya bezilwane phakathi kokusetshenziswa.

Awunayo isikhwama esikhethekile sokudlala ngocansi? Cabanga ngokutshala imali kokukodwa kwalokhu okungezansi:

• Isikhwama Sokudlala iTristan Velvish
• I-Liberator Couture Case PadLock ngokhiye
• I-Lovehoney Lockable Case Toy Case

Uwahlanza nini amathoyizi akho

Okungcono, ngemuva futhi ngaphambi kokusetshenziswa.

“Uma wena nomlingani wakho ninobudlelwano obuketshezi, ungalinda kuze kube yilapho nobabili nisisebenzise ukuyigeza, inqobo nje uma omunye wenu engazweli kakhulu kwimvubelo noma ezifweni zomchamo,” kusho uCarly S. “Ngaphandle kwalokho, yigezeni phakathi kwenu. ”

Ukuyigeza ngaphambi kokuyisebenzisa kungazwakala ngokweqile, kodwa cabanga ngalokhu: “Ngisho noma ithoyizi selivele ligeziwe, kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukulinikeza enye yokuhlanza ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokudlala,” kusho uLigon.

Ukwenza kanjalo kungamisa inja yakho yoboya ekungeneni konke kuma-bits akho!

Ungabelana kanjani ngamathoyizi ngokuphepha nangokuziphatha phakathi kwabalingani

Yep, ezempilo futhi izimiso zokuhle ziyadlalwa lapha!

Ungasebenzisi amathoyizi anezimbobo

Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, amathoyizi anezimbobo akufanele asetshenziswe nabalingani abangaphezu koyedwa. Futhi kufanele zisetshenziswe kuphela nabalingani oboshwe nabo.

Geza amathoyizi angenasidingo

Lokhu kufanele kunikezwe, kepha uma uzosebenzisa ithoyizi locansi noKaren osanda kulisebenzisa noMary, wena isidingo ukuyigeza ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Ukwehluleka ukwenza lokho kungaholela ekudlulisweni kwe-STI.

Khuluma nabalingani bakho

"Lokhu akuyona inkinga yezempilo kanye nempilo kuphela," kusho uCarly S. "Kubuye kube yinto engokomzwelo kwabanye abantu, futhi iyadingeka ukuze kuvunyelwe wonke amaqembu."

Awuqinisekile ukuthi ungakukhulisa kanjani ukwabelana kwamathoyizi ezocansi nomlingani wakho? Zama okulandelayo:

• "Ngiyazi ukuthi sesiyisebenzisile iHitachi yami ndawonye, ​​kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi sikwenze futhi lokho bengifuna ukubheka izinga lakho lokunethezeka eliseduze kwami ​​ngisebenzisa lelo thoyizi nabanye engisebenzisana nabo."
• “Ngingathanda ukusebenzisa iWomanizer yami kuwe uma lokho kuyinto ocabanga ukuthi ungayithanda. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sizame empilweni yangempela, kufanele wazi ukuthi nami ngike ngalisebenzisa lelo thoyizi ebudlelwaneni bami bangaphambilini. ”
• "Ngiyazi ukuthi sobabili sineqoqo lamathoyizi ocansi esike sawasebenzisa nabalingani bethu bangaphambilini, kepha manje njengoba sisebudlelwaneni obukhethekile, ngithanda ukuthenga amathoyizi ezocansi awethu nje."
• “Sike sakhuluma ngawe f * ungibophela ngentambo ngaphambili. Ngiyazi ukuthi uneqhude, kodwa bengizibuza ukuthi ngabe uzokwazi yini ukuhlukanisa izindleko ezintsha ozozisebenzisa nami kuphela? ”

Ngokufanele le ngxoxo izokwenzeka ngaphambi ukushisa komzuzwana. Okushoyo, ngicela ugqoke ngokuphelele uma uletha lokhu!

Okufanele ukwenze uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuchayeka nge-STI sekwenzekile

Hamba uyohlolwa! "Yisho ukuthi ubuchayeke kuphi bese ucela iphaneli eligcwele lezivivinyo uma unamandla," kusho uLigon.

Uma ungazi ukuthi uvezwe yini, tshela nodokotela wakho lokho, futhi!

Bese, "uphinde uhlolwe futhi emavikini amabili kuya kwamathathu noma ngabe udokotela ukutshela kanjani ukuthi ulinde, ngoba ezinye izifo zocansi azikwazi ukuhlolwa ngokushesha ngemuva kokuvezwa," usho njalo.

Isikhumbuzi sobungani: Ama-STI amaningi awabonakali, ngakho-ke noma ungazitholi izimpawu, kufanele uhlolwe kanye ngonyaka naphakathi kwabalingani, noma yikuphi okuza kuqala.

Ukukhulelwa nakho kungaba yingozi (encane)

Uma ungakhulelwa futhi uhlanganyela ithoyizi locansi nomuntu onepipi, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka ngokusemthethweni uma kukhona i-pre-cum noma i-ejaculation kuthoyizi lapho ulisebenzisa.

Uma ufuna ukugwema ukukhulelwa, khuluma nomlingani wakho ngezinketho zokulawula ukubeletha nangaphambi kokuhlanganyela ithoyizi. Noma, uyihlanze noma usebenzise ikhondomu entsha ngaphambi kokuba ngamunye ayisebenzise.

Okubalulekile

Noma nini lapho uhlanganyela ocansini nomuntu one-STI noma onesimo se-STI ongasazi, ukudluliselwa kwe-STI kuyingozi. Futhi lokho kufaka ukusebenzisa noma ukwabelana ngethoyizi locansi ndawonye.

Ungasiza ekunciphiseni ubungozi bokudlulisela nge:

• bexoxa ngesimo sabo se-STI nokuthi yiziphi izindlela eziphephile zocansi ofuna ukuzisebenzisa ndawonye
• ukusebenzisa ikhondomu entsha phezu kwethoyizi yawo wonke umsebenzisi omusha
• usebenzisa ithoyizi lezocansi elingathandeki futhi ulihlanze phakathi kwabalingani
• ukuba namathoyizi akho ocansi

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