UTess Holliday wembule ukuthi kungani engabelani ngokuningi ngohambo lwakhe lokuqina ku-Instagram

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Uma ungazange uthumele ukujima kwakho ku-Instagram, ingabe uze wakwenza? Njengezithombe ezingcolile zocansi ezingu-# zesidlo sakho sasemini noma izifinyezo zeholide lakho lokugcina, ukuvivinya umzimba ngokuvamile kubonakala njengento ongayenza. unayo ukubhala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana-ngoba uma ungakwenzi, wonke umuntu uzokwazi kanjani ukuthi uhamba?

UTess Holliday akabhaliseli "ukukwenzela isiko le-'Gram". Muva nje uye endaweni yesikhulumi eyokhuluma ngokuthi kungani enza kanjalo akunjalo wabelane ngokwengeziwe ngohambo lwakhe lokuqina ku-IG. Ngokuhambisana nesibuko ozishuthe sona, lo modeli ubhale wathi, "Phambilini namhlanje ngihlanganyele ezindabeni zami ebengisebenza ngazo ngokomzimba nangomsebenzi wami. Kungabonakala ngathi ngiyasebenza kakhulu. angikwazi ukwabelana nganoma yini engisebenza kuyo YET (!), kungenza ngizizwe sengathi abantu abanandaba nami noma ukuthi ngenzani bc angikho 'matasatasa.'" (Kuhlobene: U-Tess Holliday kanye I-Massy Arias Ngokusemthethweni I-Duo Yethu Entsha Yokuzivocavoca Esiyintandokazi)

UHolliday uchaze ukuthi unenkinga encane ngegama elithi "matasa." Ngokombono wakhe, wabhala, idla "isiko lokuzikhandla emsebenzini," futhi yenza abantu bazizwe sengathi unayo ukuba matasa ngaso sonke isikhathi, ingasaphathwa yabelana bamatasa kangakanani ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukukholisa wonke umuntu ngokuxokozela kwabo nempumelelo yabo.

"Bengilokhu ngenza konke okusemandleni ukuziqeqesha ukuze ngijabulele ZONKE izikhathi ezincane ezakha impilo yami," kubhala uHolliday ku-Instagram. Ngalokho, uqokelwe ukugcina iningi lohambo lwakhe lokuzilibazisa luyimfihlo, hhayi ngoba nje engafuni ukuqhubekisela phambili isiko lokusebenzela abantu ngokweqile, kodwa futhi ngoba "kunenhlamba ebhekiswe kubantu abakhuluphele abasebenza," wabhala-inhlamba ethi kudingeke ukuthi azulazule izikhathi eziningi empilweni yakhe yonke. (Okuhlobene: UTess Holliday Slams Body-Shamers Othi Ukhuthaza Ukukhuluphala)

Ukucwaswa noma ukungabi bikho, uHolliday ufuna abalandeli bakhe nabalandeli bakhe bazi wakhe umbono weqiniso ngokuzivocavoca umzimba. "Ngifuna nje ukwazi ukuthi imizwa yami mayelana nobungqabavu kanye 'nempilo' ayihlangene nokuncipha kwesisindo nayo yonke into nokwenza ngcono impilo yami yengqondo nokuziqinisa," kubhala yena. "Kungithathe isikhathi eside ukubona ukuthi ngifuna ukuzihlonipha nganoma iyiphi indlela engiyithatha ngokomzimba." (Kuhlobene: Indlela uTess Holliday Akhulisa Ngayo Ukuzethemba Ngomzimba Wakhe Ngezinsuku Ezimbi)

Okusemqoka kuHolliday ukuthi ukuqina komzimba kumayelana nokuthi ukuzivocavoca umzimba kumenza azizwe kanjani-hhayi ukuthi kubukeka kanjani kokuphakelayo kwakhe kwe-Instagram, noma ukuthi "okuthandayo" okuthunyelwe kuzothola okungaki. Indaba ye-IG ephinda ukuvivinya kwakho iphela ngemuva kwamahora angama-24. Ngokuqondene nokushesha okuthokozisayo kwama-endorphin owathola ngemuva kokuchoboza ukuzivocavoca okukhulu? Lokho ayiphelelwa yisikhathi.

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