Izinto Ezingu-27 Okufanele Uzazi Ngaphambi Kokuthi "Ulahlekelwe" Ubuntombi Bakho

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• 1. Ubuntombi busho izinto ezehlukene kubantu abehlukene
• 2. Noma ngabe umqondo wakho wobuntombi ubandakanya ukungena, kukhona okungaphezu kuka-P ku-V
• 3. Uma une-hymen, ngeke i "pop" ngesikhathi sokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane
• 4. Isihlabelelo sakho asihlangene neze nesimo sobuntombi bakho
• 5. Umzimba wakho ngeke ushintshe
• 6. Akukho "ukubukeka" kwangemva kocansi
• 7. Cishe ngeke kufane nezigcawu zocansi ozibonayo ku-TV (noma ezithombeni ezingcolile)
• 8. Isikhathi sakho sokuqala singase singakhululeki, kodwa akufanele sikulimaze
• 9. Yilapho ukuthambisa khona (futhi mhlawumbe ne-foreplay yokuqala!) Kungena khona
• 10. Amashidi akho mhlawumbe ngeke abe negazi
• 11. Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi zingasabalaliswa nganoma yiluphi uhlobo locansi
• 12. Uma wenza u-P ocansini lwe-V, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka okokuqala ngqa
• 13. Uma unesitho sangasese sowesifazane, awungeke ube ne-orgasm okokuqala
• 14. Uma unomthondo, ungahle uthinte i-orgasm ngokushesha kunokuba ubulindele
• 15. Noma ungathola ukuthi isitho sakho sangasese asibambisani
• 16. Lapho unethezeke ngokwengeziwe, maningi amathuba okuba ungene kwi-orgasm
• 17. Ama-Orgasms awahlali eyiphuzu, noma kunjalo
• 18. Uma ufuna okuthile, yisho kanjalo
• 19. Awudingi ukwenza noma yini ongakhululekile ngayo
• 20. Ungashintsha umqondo wakho noma kunini
• 21. Okuwukuphela "kwesikhathi esifanele" kulapho kuzwakala kukufanele
• 22. Kungaba "ngabe bonke abanye bayakwenza" noma cha
• 23. Ucansi aluhambisani nokusondelana noma uthando
• 24. Umphefumulo wakho awukho engcupheni, futhi ngeke unamathele kulowo muntu ingunaphakade
• 25. Uma ulala nomuntu ohlangana naye njalo, amandla angashintsha
• 26. Isikhathi sakho sokuqala asiyibeki ithoni ocansini ongase uqhubeke nokuba nalo
• 27. Uma isipiliyoni sakho sokuqala singesikho obekufuna, ungahlala uzama futhi

1. Ubuntombi busho izinto ezehlukene kubantu abehlukene

Akekho eyodwa incazelo yobuntombi. Kwabanye, ukuba yintombi nto kusho ukuthi awuzange ube nanoma yiluphi uhlobo locansi olungena ngaphakathi - noma ngabe lokho kungokwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, esendunu, noma esomlomo. Abanye bangachaza ubuntombi njengobungakaze bangene ekungeneni kwesitho sangasese sowesilisa, yize kunezinye izinhlobo zocansi, kufaka phakathi ukugqugquzela ngomlomo nokungena endunu.

Kodwa-ke uyichaza, into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi wena nquma ukuthi usukulungele nini ukuya ocansini nokuthi unethezekile yini ngalolo khetho. Futhi lapho leso sikhathi sifika, zama ukungacabangi ngathi "ukulahlekelwa" noma "ukupha" okuthile. Empeleni uthola isipiliyoni esisha ngokuphelele.

2. Noma ngabe umqondo wakho wobuntombi ubandakanya ukungena, kukhona okungaphezu kuka-P ku-V

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela "yokulahlekelwa" ubuntombi bakho kungokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesilisa ngepipi, kepha akunjalo.

Abanye abantu kungenzeka bangabe besazibiza ngentombi ngemuva kokuhlanganyela ekungeneni kwendunu noma ukungena ngomunwe noma ithoyizi locansi. Abanye bangabuye bacabangele isimo sabo sobuntombi ngemuva kokuthola noma ukuvuselela ngomlomo. Uma kukhulunywa ngobuntombi nobulili, kuningi kakhulu kunokuP kuV.

3. Uma une-hymen, ngeke i "pop" ngesikhathi sokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane

O, iculo - izinto ezinganekwane. Cishe uke wayizwa inganekwane yokuthi uma une-hymen, izophuka ngesikhathi sokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Kepha yilokho kuphela: inganekwane.

I-hymen emaphakathi akuyona ucezu lwethishu eyisicaba emboza ukuvuleka kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, njengokusho kwenganekwane. Esikhundleni salokho, kuvame ukukhululeka - futhi lutho neze ucezu lwethishu olungaguquki olulengela isitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Ngokuya ngosayizi wayo, i-hymen ingahle idwengulwe ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini ngokungena, ukuzivocavoca, noma ukwenza omunye umsebenzi womzimba. Kepha ngeke "iqhume," ngoba imane nje ayikwazi.

4. Isihlabelelo sakho asihlangene neze nesimo sobuntombi bakho

Ihubo lakho - njengomunwe wakho noma indlebe yakho - liyingxenye yomzimba nje. Akunqumi ukuthi uyintombi nto noma cha njengoba izinzwane zakho zenza. Futhi, akuwona wonke umuntu ozalwa enesiculo, futhi uma kunjalo, kungaba ucezu oluncane kakhulu lwethishu. Wena - nawe wedwa - nquma isimo sobuntombi bakho.

5. Umzimba wakho ngeke ushintshe

Umzimba wakho awuguquki ngemuva kokwenza ucansi okokuqala - noma okwesibili, noma okwesithathu, noma amashumi amahlanu.

Kodwa-ke, uzothola ukuhlangana okuthile komzimba okuhlobene nokuvuswa kocansi. Lokhu kungafaka:

• imomozi evuvukile
• umthondo omile
• ukuphefumula okusheshayo
• ukujuluka
• isikhumba esikhanyayo

Lezi zimpendulo ezihlobene nokuvuka zivusa okwesikhashana. Umzimba wakho awuguquki - uphendula nje ukugqugquzela.

6. Akukho "ukubukeka" kwangemva kocansi

Ngemuva kokuqeda ukwenza ucansi, umzimba wakho uzobuyela kancane esimeni sawo esijwayelekile. Kepha lesi sikhathi sokubanda sihlala kuphela imizuzu embalwa.

Ngamanye amagama, ayikho indlela omunye umuntu angazi ngayo ukuthi awuseyona intombi nto. Ukuphela kwendlela abazokwazi ngayo uma uthatha isinqumo sokubatshela.

7. Cishe ngeke kufane nezigcawu zocansi ozibonayo ku-TV (noma ezithombeni ezingcolile)

Wonke umuntu ubhekana nobulili ngokuhlukile. Kepha akufanele ulindele ukuthi isikhathi sakho sokuqala sifane nalokho okubonayo kumamuvi.

Izigcawu zocansi kumafilimu nakumabonakude azenzeki ngesikhathi esisodwa - abalingisi imvamisa kufanele bazibeke kabusha, futhi abaqondisi bangase baqale kabusha izingxenye ezithile ukuze indawo ibukeke kahle kukhamera.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi okubonayo esikrinini sesiliva ngokujwayelekile akusona isithombe esingokoqobo sokuthi ucansi lunjani kubantu abaningi.

8. Isikhathi sakho sokuqala singase singakhululeki, kodwa akufanele sikulimaze

Kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele ukuzizwa ungakhululekile okokuqala lapho uya ocansini. Ukungqubuzana kungenzeka ngokungena, futhi lokho kungadala ukungakhululeki. Kepha isikhathi sakho sokuqala akufanele silimaze.

Uma ukuya ocansini kulimaza, noma kunjalo, lokho kungenxa yokushoda kokuthambisa, noma mhlawumbe isimo sezempilo, njenge-endometriosis. Kufanele ubone udokotela uma uzwa ubuhlungu njalo uma uya ocansini. Bangakwazi ukuhlola izimpawu zakho futhi basize ukwelapha noma yiziphi izimo ezingaphansi.

9. Yilapho ukuthambisa khona (futhi mhlawumbe ne-foreplay yokuqala!) Kungena khona

Uma unesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ungaveza ukuthambisa - noma ube “manzi” - ngokwemvelo. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi, kungahle kungabi khona ukuthambisa okwanele kwesitho sangasese sangasese ukunciphisa ukungqubuzana ngesikhathi sokungena.

Sebenzisa i-lube kungasiza ukwenza ucansi lwangasese lube mnandi ngokwengeziwe ngokunciphisa ukucasuka. Uma uhlanganyela ekungeneni kwendunu, i-lube kufanele nakanjani; indunu ayizikhiqizi ukugcotshwa kwayo uqobo, futhi ukungena ngaphandle kokuthambisa kungaholela kwezinyembezini.

10. Amashidi akho mhlawumbe ngeke abe negazi

Kungaba nokopha okulula okokuqala lapho uya ocansini, kepha ungalindeli isigcawu esivela ku- "The Shining."

Uma unesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ungathola ukopha okuncane uma iculo lakho lilula ngesikhathi sokungena. Futhi uma izinyembezi zomzimba we-canal zikhala ngesikhathi sokungena kwe-anal, ukuphuma kwegazi okuncane kungenzeki. Kodwa-ke, lokhu ngokuvamile akukhiqizi igazi elanele ukushiya ukungcola emashidini.

11. Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi zingasabalaliswa nganoma yiluphi uhlobo locansi

Ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane akuyona ukuphela kwendlela okusakazeka ngayo izifo zocansi. Izifo ezithathelana ngokocansi zingasakazeka nangokungena endunu nokuvuselelwa ngomlomo, noma ngabe uyapha noma uyamukela. Yingakho kubalulekile ukusebenzisa amakhondomu nezinye izindlela zokuvikela isikhathi ngasinye, ngaso sonke isikhathi.

12. Uma wenza u-P ocansini lwe-V, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka okokuqala ngqa

Ukukhulelwa kuyinto kungenzeka noma kunini lapho kukhona ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane ngepipi, noma ngabe kungokokuqala ngqa. Kungenzeka uma umuntu onepipi ehlahlela ngaphakathi esithweni sangasese noma ngaphandle, kodwa eduze, kuvuleke isitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ukusebenzisa ikhondomu kuyindlela yakho engcono yokuvikela ukukhulelwa.

13. Uma unesitho sangasese sowesifazane, awungeke ube ne-orgasm okokuqala

Ama-Orgasms akusona isiqinisekiso ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kunethuba lokuthi ungahle ungavuthisi ngesikhathi uqala ukuya ocansini. Lokho kungenzeka ngezizathu eziningi, kufaka phakathi amazinga okududuza nezimo zezokwelapha. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi kubantu abanesitho sangasese baba nobunzima bokufinyelela ku-orgasm nomlingani wakho.

14. Uma unomthondo, ungahle uthinte i-orgasm ngokushesha kunokuba ubulindele

Akuvamile ukuthi umuntu onepipi afinyelele kuvuthondaba ngokushesha kunalokho abebekulindele - noma abekade befuna - ngesikhathi socansi. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungathinta abantu abaningi kwabangu-1 kwabathathu.

Uma u-orgasm ngokushesha isikhathi ngasinye lapho uya ocansini, cabanga ukukhuluma nodokotela. Bangakwazi ukunikela ngemithi noma batuse ezinye izindlela zokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ungahle ungazwani ne-orgasm okokuqala lapho uya ocansini, noma ngabe ukhipha umhluzi.

15. Noma ungathola ukuthi isitho sakho sangasese asibambisani

Ungathola ukuthi awukwazi ukuthola noma ukugcina i-erection firm ngokwanele ukungena. Yize ungazizwa unamahloni noma ucasukile, yazi ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile (ED) akuyona into engavamile.

I-ED ingenzeka ngezizathu eziningi, njengokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka. Futhi ngoba lesi yisikhathi sokuqala lapho uya ocansini, ungazizwa ukhathazeka kakhulu.

Uma i-ED iqhubeka, ungakuthola kuwusizo ukukhuluma nodokotela ngezimpawu zakho.

16. Lapho unethezeke ngokwengeziwe, maningi amathuba okuba ungene kwi-orgasm

Usethubeni lokuba i-orgasm uma ukhululekile ngomzimba wakho, umlingani wakho, kanye nesipiliyoni sonkana. Uma ukhululekile, uye wamukele ngokwengeziwe ukugqugquzelwa ngokocansi. Ngokulandelayo, kungenzeka ukuthi uzwe imizwa ejabulisayo emzimbeni wakho wonke. Futhi, kuyo yonke inkambo yezocansi, leyo mizwa ingakhuphuka ibe yi-orgasm.

17. Ama-Orgasms awahlali eyiphuzu, noma kunjalo

Ungakutholi okungalungile - ama-orgasms mahle! Zibangela amagagasi entokozo emzimbeni wakho wonke akwenze uzizwe umuhle impela. Kodwa ukuba ne-orgasm akuyona njalo iphuzu lezocansi. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho nobabili nikhululekile futhi ngokulinganayo kulwazi eninalo.

18. Uma ufuna okuthile, yisho kanjalo

Ungazinaki izifiso zakho. Uma unezidingo ezithile nezidingo ezithile, qiniseka ukuthi utshela umlingani wakho - futhi ngokufanayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi uvule futhi uthembeke ngalokho ongathanda ukuthi kwenzeke okokuqala uma uya ocansini ukuze ulwazi lube ngcono kakhulu.

19. Awudingi ukwenza noma yini ongakhululekile ngayo

Cha kusho ukuthi cha. Isitobha esigcwele. Uma kunokuthile ongakhululekile ukukwenza, akudingeki ukwenze. Umlingani wakho akanalo ilungelo lokukuphoqa noma akuphoqe ukuthi uye ocansini - futhi ngokufanayo. Futhi lokhu akusebenzi esikhathini sakho sokuqala kuphela - lokhu kuya zikhathi zonke uya ocansini.

20. Ungashintsha umqondo wakho noma kunini

Akudingeki uqhubeke nokwenza ucansi uma ungasakhululekile noma unentshisekelo. Unelungelo lokushintsha umqondo wakho noma kunini. Nakulokhu, umlingani wakho akanayo ilungelo lokukuphoqa noma akuphoqe ukuthi uqhubeke nokuya ocansini uma ungafuni.

21. Okuwukuphela "kwesikhathi esifanele" kulapho kuzwakala kukufanele

Ungazizwa ucindezelwa ukuthi uhlanganyele ucansi ngokushesha kunokuba ukulungele ngempela. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi uwena wedwa onganquma ukuthi ufuna ukuya ocansini okokuqala nini. Uma isikhathi sizwakala, kulungile. Linda kuze kuzwakale kukufanele.

22. Kungaba "ngabe bonke abanye bayakwenza" noma cha

Kholwa noma ungakukholwa, wonke umuntu uyikho hhayi ukukwenza. Izinga labantu abaya ocansini empeleni liyehla. Ngokocwaningo olulodwa lwango-2016, amaphesenti ayi-15 ama-Millennials awakaze alwenze ucansi kusukela eneminyaka engu-18.

Futhi, imininingwane evela kumaCenter for Disease Control and Prevention ikhombisa lokho okokuqala. Isilinganiso seminyaka yanamuhla, sisuka eminyakeni eyi-16 ubudala ngo-2000.

23. Ucansi aluhambisani nokusondelana noma uthando

Ubulili, njengokugijima, kungumsebenzi womzimba - futhi akukho okunye. Akuyona into efanayo ukusondelana, uthando, ezothando, noma isibopho esingokomzwelo. Indlela obheka ngayo ucansi, noma kunjalo, iyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Abanye abantu bangaya ocansini nabalingani babo ababathandayo, kanti abanye bangaya ocansini ngaphandle kwezintambo.

Ngamanye amagama, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ukhululekile ngalelo qiniso lokuthi uya ocansini, nokuthi omunye umuntu kungenzeka angahlanganyeli nanoma yiliphi inani lokuziphatha noma lomzwelo ongalibeka kulokho okwenzekile.

24. Umphefumulo wakho awukho engcupheni, futhi ngeke unamathele kulowo muntu ingunaphakade

Abanye abantu bangaba nezinkolelo eziqinile ngokwenkolo. Abanye kungenzeka. Kunoma ikuphi, ngeke uwukhubaze umphefumulo wakho ngokuya ocansini, futhi ngeke uboshwe kuze kube phakade nomlingani wakho. Ekugcineni, ucansi yilokho nje - ucansi. Kungumsebenzi ojwayelekile, onempilo ongachazi noma onqume isisekelo sakho sokuziphatha noma somoya.

25. Uma ulala nomuntu ohlangana naye njalo, amandla angashintsha

Wena nomlingani wakho nobabili ningasala nibuza imibuzo emisha, njengokuthi “Ngabe kumele sikwenze lokhu njalo uma sibonana?”; “Ngabe ucansi luyohlale lukhona yini kanjalo? ”; nokuthi "Kusho ukuthini lokhu ebudlelwaneni bethu?" Ezinye izimpendulo zingaba nzima, kepha njengoba ukhuluma ngalezi zinkinga, qiniseka ukuthi uhlala uvulekile futhi uthembekile ngemizwa yakho.

26. Isikhathi sakho sokuqala asiyibeki ithoni ocansini ongase uqhubeke nokuba nalo

Into enhle ngocansi ukuthi kuyinto ehlukile njalo. Isikhathi sakho sokuqala ukuya ocansini kungenzeka singafiki kulokho okulindele, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi okwesibili, okwesithathu, noma okwesine nakho kuzokwenza. Uhlobo lwezocansi ongaluthola noma ongazukuqhubeka nalo luzoya kozakwethu, izinga lesipiliyoni, ukuzimisela ukuzama izinto ezintsha, nokunye okuningi.

27. Uma isipiliyoni sakho sokuqala singesikho obekufuna, ungahlala uzama futhi

Isikhathi sakho sokuqala ukuya ocansini akudingeki ukuthi kube yinto eyodwa neyenziwayo ngaphandle kokuthi ukhetha kanjalo. Uma ngabe okuhlangenwe nakho akuyona into obuyifuna noma obuyilindele, ungahlala uzama futhi - futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, njengoba isisho sithi: Ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele.