Yilokhu Okusiza U-Lady Gaga Ukubhekana Nokugula Ngengqondo

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Njengengxenye yomkhankaso weNamuhla neNBCUniversal #ShareKindness, uLady Gaga usanda kuchitha lolu suku endaweni yokukhosela yentsha ye-LGBT engenamakhaya eHarlem. Umculi owine umklomelo we-Grammy futhi owasungula isisekelo se-Born This Way uvule isifuba sakhe ngokuthi isenzo somusa simsize kanjani ukuthi aphulukise ebunzimeni obuningi empilweni.

“Umusa kimina yisenzo sothando noma ukukhombisa uthando komunye umuntu,” kusho yena. "Ngiyakholelwa futhi ukuthi umusa uyikhambi lodlame nenzondo emhlabeni jikelele. Ngithanda ukwabelana ngomusa ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene."

UGaga weza nezipho ezinikelwe zezimpahla zokugqoka nezinye izinto, futhi wadlulisa ukwanga okuningi namazwi akhuthazayo. Akugcinanga lapho kodwa umculi ushiye inothi elikhuthazayo nelisuka enhliziyweni komunye nomunye wentsha ehlala kulesi sikhungo.

"Lezi zingane akuzona nje ezingenamakhaya noma eziswele. Abaningi babo abasinde enhlekeleleni; baye banqatshwa ngandlela thize. Ukuhlukumezeka kwami ​​​​empilweni yami kungisizile ukuba ngiqonde ukuhlukumezeka kwabanye."

Ku-2014, uGaga wabelane esidlangalaleni ukuthi uyena owasinda ekuhlukunyezweni ngokocansi, futhi selokhu waphendukela ekuzindleni njengendlela yokuthola ukuthula. Phakathi nokuvakasha kwakhe, wenze iseshini emfushane nentsha ethile, exoxa ngomlayezo obalulekile:

"Anginazo izinkinga ezifana nezakho onazo," esho, "Kodwa nginesifo sengqondo, futhi ngiyalwa nakho nsuku zonke ngakho-ke ngidinga imantra yami ingisize ngihlale ngikhululekile."

Kwaze kwaba yileso sikhathi lapho uGaga eveza khona esidlangalaleni ukuthi uphila nesifo sokucindezeleka sangemva kokuhlukumezeka.

"Ngitshele izingane namuhla ukuthi ngigula ngengqondo. Ngiphethwe yi-PTSD. Angikaze ngitshele muntu lokho ngaphambilini, ngakho-ke silapha," esho. "Kodwa umusa engiwuboniswe odokotela - kanye nomndeni wami nabangane bami - kusindise impilo yami."

"Bengifuna izindlela zokuzelapha. Ngithole ukuthi umusa uyindlela engcono kakhulu. Enye indlela yokusiza abantu abahlukumezekile ngukubajova ngemicabango emihle ngangokunokwenzeka." "Angingcono kunanoma iyiphi yalezi zingane, futhi angimbi kakhulu kunanoma iyiphi yazo," esho. "Siyalingana. Sobabili sihamba izinyawo zethu ezimbili emhlabeni owodwa, futhi sikulokhu sindawonye."

Buka yonke le ngxoxo engezansi.

NgoLwesithathu, uGaga uthathe isikhathi echaza ngesimo sakhe ngencwadi evulekile ethinta inhliziyo nenhliziyo.

"Kungumzamo wami wansuku zonke, ngisho nakulo mjikelezo we-albhamu, ukulawula uhlelo lwami lwezinzwa ukuze ngingatatazeli ngezimo abantu abaningi abazobukeka njengezimo ezijwayelekile zempilo," kubhala lesi sihlabani se-pop. "Ngisaqhubeka nokufunda ukuthi ngeqa kanjani lokhu ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi ngingakwazi. Uma uhlobene nengabelana ngakho, ngicela wazi ukuthi nawe ungakwazi."

Ungafunda yonke incwadi kuwebhusayithi yakhe ye-Born This Way Foundation.

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