UWhitney Port wadumala Ngengxube Yemizwa Anayo Ngemva Kokuphuphunyelwa Kwesisu Kwakamuva
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Ngesikhathi nangemva kokukhulelwa kwakhe nendodana yakhe uSonny, uWhitney Port wabelana ngokuhle nokubi kokuba ngumama omusha. Ochungechungeni lwe-YouTube olunesihloko esithi "Ngiyayithanda Ingane Yami, Kodwa ..." ubhale ulwazi lwakhe ngezinto ezifana nobuhlungu, ukuqunjelwa, nokuncelisa.
Manje, uPort waphinde wamnika umbono oqotho ngokukhulelwa, kulokhu mayelana nokukhulelwa kwesisu. Esiqeshini esisha se-podcast yakhe noWhit, yena nomyeni wakhe, uTim Rosenman, bakhulume ngokukhulelwa kwesibili kukaPort, okuphele ngokuphuphunyelwa yisisu emasontweni amabili edlule. (Okuhlobene: Okhulelwe uShay Mitchell Ukhumbula Ngenyembe Ukuthi 'Uvalwe amehlo' Ngokuphuphuma Kwesisu Emasontweni Ayishumi nane)
Ekuqaleni kwesiqephu, uPort uveze ukuthi ubengaqiniseki ngokuba nengane yesibili ngaphambi kokukhulelwa. "Eqinisweni okwenzekile ukuthi ngayeka ukulawula inzalo," echaza ku-podcast. "Ngicabanga ukuthi ebengifuna kwenzeke ukuthi sikhulelwe ngaphandle kokuba nengxoxo futhi ngaphandle kokuzama ukuyizama, ngivele ngiphume esandleni sami."
Lapho ethola ukuthi ukhulelwe, akazange abe nombono omuhle ngokuphelele. “Ngazizwa nginovalo ngenxa yazo zonke izinto engangizidela nokuthi ngangizophinde ngidlule kukho ukuze ngithole le ngane nokuba ngumama,” kusho yena. "Kodwa ngangesaba nokuvuma nje ukuthi ngangesaba ukuba nengane. Ngazizwa nginamahloni kakhulu futhi nginecala ukuthi ngangizizwa ngale ndlela, ngakho-ke lezi zingqimba zehlazo kanye necala zenza kube nzima ngisho ukukhuluma ngakho."
Emasontweni ayisithupha ekhulelwe, uPort wabona ukuthi uyabona. Ube eseya esibhedlela ukuyohlolwa futhi wathola ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwakhe akusasebenzi. Ngemuva kokuxoxa nodokotela wakhe ngezinketho zakhe, wakhetha inqubo yokuhlanza nokwelapha (i-D & C), esho. I-ICYDK, inqubo ye-D & C ivame ukwenziwa ngemuva kokuphuphuma kwesisu ukukhipha umbungu nezinye izicubu, ngokusho kukaJohns Hopkins Medicine. (Okuhlobene: UHannah Bronfman Wabelane Ngendaba Yakhe Yokukhulelwa Esimweni Esivulekile)
Ngenkathi uPort ekhuluma ngombono wakhe ngokuphuphuma kwesisu manje, waklinya njengoba aveza ukuthi uzizwa exubene nemizwa. "Ngeke ngithi ngizizwa ngikhululekile," esho. "Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba yonke le nto ibuhlungu nje. Ngizizwa ngidabukile, kodwa futhi ngizizwa ngijabule ukuthi umzimba wami usengowami njengamanje futhi akuyona into eyengeziwe okufanele siyihlelele."
Kuwo wonke ama-podcast, uPort uzwakalise ukungabaza ngokuvula isifuba, esaba ukuthi abantu bazomhlazisa ngokungaphatheki kahle ngokukhulelwa kwakhe. Kodwa uthe ubefuna ukukhombisa abanye besifazane ukuthi noma yini abazizwayo ngemuva kokuphuphunyelwa yisisu kulungile: “Ngibona sengathi kithina ekugcineni kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi le ngxoxo ihlale ikhona ukuze abantu bayilalele. ukuze bezwe ukuqinisekiswa okuthile. "