Kungani u-Ariel Winter "ezisola" Okunye Ukushaywa Kwakhe Kwezandla Ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
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U-Ariel Winter akesabi ukuphendula ama-troll ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Lapho abantu begxeka ukukhetha kwakhe okokugqoka, wayekhuluma ngelungelo lakhe lokugqoka lokho akufunayo. Ubhekiswe nokuqagela oku-inthanethi ngesisindo sakhe.
Kepha manje, uBusika uthi unombono ohlukile wokuthi ngabe kusifanele yini isikhathi sakhe ukwamukela ukuphawula okuvela kuma-troll aku-inthanethi.
"Ngizama ukungaphenduli," esanda kutshelaUs Weekly. "Bengifuna ukuphendula kahle kubantu isikhathi eside ngoba nginomuzwa wokuthi uma uhlezi uthumele othile lowo mlayezo, kumele kube khona ongakutholi empilweni yakho." (Okuhlobene: AmaCelebs ayi-17 Aphakamise Ubuciko Bokushaya Izandla Kubazondayo)
Ubusika uqhubeke nokuvuma ukuthi ube nezikhathi lapho "azisole" khona ephendula umbono omubi online. "Bengifana nokuthi, 'Lokhu kuyisiphukuphuku. Akudingekile.' Ngiyazi ... ngicabanga njengoba wonke umuntu azi, uma umuntu ethumela lawo mazwi ufuna ingxabano, uyazi, ufuna ukuthi uphendule."
Eqinisweni, lo mlingisi oneminyaka engu-21 uthi umlandeli umsize ukuba afinyelele kulokhu. "Empeleni benginophenyo lwabalandeli kokunye engikubhalile ngathi," Uphendula kakhulu imibono engakhi kunaleyo oyiphendulayo, "kuchaza yena. "Bengingazi nokuthi ngenza lokho."
UWinter uthi uyayazisa imibono emihle ayithola ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kunaleyo engemihle. Kepha manje uyabona ukuthi isenzo sakhe asihambisani njalo nemicabango yakhe. (Okuhlobene: Indlela Izinsiza Zokuxhumana Zabantu Abasaziwayo Ezithinta Ngayo Impilo Yengqondo Yakho Nesithombe Sakho)
“Njengomphakathi siphawula kakhulu ngalokhu okungekuhle futhi lawo mazwana angithinte kakhulu,” kusho yena.
Ukuqhubekela phambili, uBusika uthi ugxile kakhulu ekuthini ubonga kangakanani ngenhlanhla ayitholayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kunokuba abheke ukushaya ihlombe emuva kokunganaki.
"Isikhathi esinzima ngempela kwabesifazane abasebasha ukuthi bakhule benakho konke ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi babe nemibono engemihle ngayo yonke into kulezi zinsuku," uWinter wasitshela phambilini. “Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa abantu besifazane abasebasha nabesilisa ukuthi ‘bakhulume kahle’ ukuze bangakhuli benombono ongemuhle ngale ndlela.