Kungani Kupholile ukuthi u-Amal Alamuddin Washintsha Igama Lakhe Waba nguClooney

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Ubuhle obumangalisayo, ubuhlakani, usomlomo, nommeli owaziwayo emhlabeni jikelele Amal Alamuddin ineziqu eziningi, nokho uthumele umhlaba kwi-tizzy ngenkathi esanda kufaka entsha: UNkk. UGeorge Clooney. Ngokombiko wenkampani yakhe yabameli, lo wesifazane onamakhono amaningi washintsha ngokusemthethweni isibongo sakhe ukuze athathe isibongo somyeni wakhe odumile, ngaphandle kwe-hyphen. Lesi senzo sicasule abesifazane abaningi abazizwa sengathi udela ubunikazi bakhe ngenxa yendoda yakhe. Kepha labo ababukela phansi ukukhetha kwakhe abalahlekile iqiniso lokuthi yilokho-kukhethwa kwakhe.

Sekuphele izizukulwane zabantu besifazane emiphakathini eminingi bekulindeleke ukuthi bathathe isibongo somyeni wabo uma beshada kodwa eminyakeni yakamuva kuke kwaba nokuhlehla kwesiko. Abesifazane banezizathu eziningi zokufuna ukugcina isibongo sabo, kusuka ekukhathazekeni kwemibono njengokuqashelwa kwakho konke abakwenzile bebodwa ngezizathu ezizwakalayo, njengokuthi kubuhlungu ukwenza wonke amaphepha akho aguqulwe. UJill Filopovic we Unogada kufingqwe zonke izizathu hhayi lapho ebuza ukuthi "Kungani, ngo-2013, ukuthi ukushada kusho ukulahla uphawu oluyisisekelo ngobunikazi bakho?"

Futhi nokho abesifazane banezizathu eziningi zokufuna ukwenza ushintsho. U-Amal akakhulumanga ngezizathu zakhe zokuhamba uClooney-futhi abesifazane akufanele badlulisele ukukhetha kwabo kunoma ngubani.

Abanye baye baqagela ukuthi i-Alamuddin yayiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. "Nami nginesibongo okunzima ukusibiza/ukusipela futhi mhlawumbe u-Amal ukhathele nje ukupela igama elingapheli elithi 'Alamuddin' kubantu ahlangana nabo nsuku zonke," kubhala owesifazane waseNdiya waseMelika weCelebitchy. "Ukhathele [mhlawumbe] ngokuthi 'Hlobo luni lwegama lelo?' imibuzo nokuthi 'Yini leyo? Ngizodinga ukuthi uyipele'. "

Kwami? Ngishintshe igama lami lobuntombi laba igama lami eliphakathi futhi ngathatha isibongo somyeni wami lapho sishada futhi ngibhala ngokomsebenzi ngaphansi kwawo womabili amagama. Kubonakale njengokuhlehla okuhle phakathi kwesiko nobufazi futhi angikaze ngizisole ngesinqumo sami futhi angikaze ngizwe sengathi bekuyinto enkulu. U-Amal (noma uNkk. Clooney) futhi angingedwa nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ucwaningo lwakamuva lubheke abasebenzisi abangaphezu kwezigidi eziyi-14 be-Facebook bathola ukuthi amaphesenti angama-65 abesifazane abaseminyakeni yama-20 nengama-30 bashintshe amagama abo ngemuva komshado. (Futhi-ke, ukushintsha iphrofayili yakho ye-Facebook kubophezela kakhulu kunomkhosi osemthethweni kulezi zinsuku, akunjalo?) Olunye ucwaningo lubeka inani eliphakeme kakhulu ngamaphesenti angama-86 abesifazane abathatha igama labayeni babo. Okuthakazelisa nakakhulu ukuthi lezi zinombolo zikhuphukela phezulu kunabesifazane abaningi manje abenza ushintsho kunangabo-1990.

Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengama-35 futhi abasungule imisebenzi yomphakathi yibo abangahle bagcine amagama abo ezintombi. U-Amal nakanjani ungena kuleli qembu njengoba kwenza iningi lalabo abagxeka ukukhetha kwakhe. Futhi lokho, ngicabanga, kuyinkinga: Abesifazane bagxeka ukukhetha komunye wesifazane ngoba bezwa sengathi kungukuhlaselwa komuntu siqu esinqumweni sabo. Ngingathemba ukuthi ikakhulukazi manje njengoba sesivunyelwe ngokukhululekile ukukhetha ukuthi sizokwenzani ngamagama ethu - into okhokho bethu abaningi abangazange bayithokozele - ukuthi singasekela inkululeko yabesifazane yokwenza noma yini abayithandayo ngamagama abo, noma yini lokho kukhetha kungaba. Ngakho-ke, nkosikazi, Nkk. Clooney! (Wozani, mangaki amantombazane angenza njalo bulala ukuze ube naleso sihloko?!)

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