U-Anna Victoria Unomyalezo Wanoma ngubani Othi "Bathanda" Umzimba Wakhe Ukubheka Ngandlela-thile

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Izigidi zabalandeli baka-Anna Victoria be-Instagram bamzuzele indawo ephezulu emkhakheni wokuqina. Yize angaziwa ngokujima kwakhe i-Fit Body Guide ebulalayo kanye nezitsha zakhe eziphuzisa umlomo, ukwethembeka kwakhe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana okugcina wonke umuntu ebuya ukuze athole okwengeziwe.

Umuntu oyisibonelo esihle ngomzimba ube neqiniso ngokuqabulayo mayelana nesisu sakhe, wabelana ngqo nalokho okungena kulezo zithombe ze-blogger zokufaneleka "eziphelele". Futhi usechazile ukuthi kungani engenandaba nokuthi ukhuluphele. Kodwa nakuba emayelana nokusabalalisa uthando lomzimba, akagonyiwe kubazondayo.

"Muva nje ngithole imibono embalwa engemihle ikakhulukazi ngezithombe zami zentuthuko," kusho uVictoria Umumo njengengxenye yomkhankaso othi #MindYourOwnShape.

Omunye umsebenzisi we-Instagram uye esigabeni sokuphawula ku-Instagram ethi: "Ubukeka emuhle futhi enethoni ngakwesokudla kepha ubize malini? Isifuba sakhe sinciphise usayizi wendebe yonke, mhlawumbe amabili. Ngikhetha kakhulu abesifazane ukuthi bahlale bengenamathoni futhi babe curvere."

Omunye ophawulile wabhala: "Ngikhetha imisipha engatheni njengakuqala. Kungowesifazane nje kuphela, kepha lowo umbono wami kuphela." Omunye waze wathi: "Akunahips. Ayi-sexy." (Faka i-eye-roll lapha.)

Ukuphawula ngakunye kwakulimaza ngokufanayo, kepha leyo yokungabi nezinqulu yamthinta impela umuzwa: "Ukuphawula ngokungabi nezinqe njengongenayo imizwa ebuhlungu kuyadabukisa," esho. "Akulungile ukuthi abantu baveze abakuthandayo ohlotsheni lomzimba wabanye abantu, ikakhulukazi lapho singeke sikwazi ukushintsha ezinye izinto. Angikwazi ukushintsha isakhiwo samathambo enqulu yami, futhi noma bengingakwazi, bengingeke. Bengingakwazi. ngiyaziqhenya ngomzimba wami ngalokho oyikho, ngalokho ongakwenza nokuthi ngingawuphusha kude kangakanani."

Ngeshwa, uVictoria akayedwa uma kuziwa kulolu hlobo lokuhlazeka komzimba. Imizimba yabesifazane ihlale igxekwa ikakhulukazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Thatha iKira Stokes, isibonelo. Umqeqeshi osekela inselelo yethu yepulangwe yezinsuku ezingu-30 utshelwe izikhathi eziningi ukuthi umzimba wakhe owenziwe kahle "akukona okowesifazane" nokuthi kufanele athwale isisindo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Yogi Heidi Kristoffer, utshelwe ukuthi ubukeka "njengomkhomo wasogwini" ngemuva kokuthi sithumele ividiyo yakhe enza i-yoga yokubeletha.

Njengoba ebesezicathulweni zabesifazane, uVictoria unomyalezo kubo bonke abashayisa umzimba laphaya: Uhambo lwakhe lokuqina yilokho kanye-eyakhe-Futhi akunandaba ukuthi omunye umuntu ucabangani ngomzimba wakhe.

"Angikwenzi lokhu, ngisebenza kanzima, ngidla ukudla okunempilo, ngiziphoqa ukuba ngibe ngumuntu ongcono kakhulu engingaba yibo, kubo," esho. "Ukuthi omunye umuntu uzizwa kanjani ngomzimba wami njengoba ngihamba nohambo lwami lokuzilolonga akubalulekile. Ukuphawula kwabo kungahle kucasule, impela, kodwa akukho miningi imibono yangaphandle ngomzimba wami ezoshintsha enginqume ukukwenza ohambweni lwami lokuqina."

Ekupheleni kosuku, ubuhle "akubona usayizi owodwa olingana konke" futhi uVictoria ufuna sikhumbule ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ubuchaza ngendlela ehlukile. "Alikho izinga elilodwa lobuhle futhi akunalwazi ukucabanga ukuthi umbono wabo ngomzimba womunye umuntu ubaluleke kakhulu kunemibono yalowo muntu," esho.

Kwabesifazane ababhekane nalolu hlobo lokunganaki, uVictoria uthi: "Ngingakhuthaza abanye besifazane abake baba namahloni emzimbeni ukuba bakhumbule ukuthi ukuphela komuntu onemibono ebalulekile nokuthi sichaza izinga lethu lobuhle. caphuna u-Dita Von Teese, 'Ungaba ipentshisi elivuthwe kakhulu, elinejusi kunawo wonke emhlabeni futhi kusazoba khona umuntu ozonda amapentshisi.'

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