Kungani Kubonakala Kungathi Kungenzeka Ukuba Nomlutha WeTattoo
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- Ingabe ama-tattoo ayalutha?
- Ingabe indlela yokuziphatha efuna i-adrenaline?
- Ungabe ulambele ama-endorphin?
- Ingabe ungumlutha wezinhlungu?
- Ingabe kuyisifiso esiqhubekayo sokuveza imibono?
- Kungenzeka yini kube ukukhululeka kwengcindezi?
- Ingabe i-inki ngokwayo ingalutha?
- Ukuthatha
Ingabe ama-tattoo ayalutha?
Ama-tattoos akhuphukile ekuthandeni eminyakeni yamuva nje, futhi abe yindlela eyamukelwa kahle yokukhuluma komuntu siqu.
Uma wazi umuntu onama-tatoo ambalwa, kungenzeka ukuthi ubazwile bekhuluma "ngomlutha we-tattoo" wakhe noma bakhuluma ngokuthi abakwazi kanjani ukulinda ukuthola enye i-tattoo. Mhlawumbe uzizwa ngendlela efanayo ngoyinki wakho.
Akuyona into engavamile ukuzwa uthando lwamathambo okubhekiswe kuwo njengomlutha. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ama-tattoo angalutha. (Kukhona ngisho nochungechunge lwethelevishini olubizwa nge- "My Tattoo Addiction.")
Kodwa ama-tattoo awaluthisi, ngokusho kwencazelo yomtholampilo yokulutha. I-American Psychiatric Association ichaza ukulutheka njengephethini yokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa noma indlela yokuziphatha engalawulwa kalula futhi engaba yimpoqo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ungahle uphishekele le nto noma lo msebenzi ngaphandle kwezinkinga ongahle uzidale futhi unenkinga yokucabanga noma ukwenza noma yini enye.
Le ncazelo ngokuvamile ayisebenzi kumathambo. Ukuba namathambo amaningi, ukuhlela ama-tattoos amaningi, noma ukwazi ukuthi ufuna ama-tattoos amaningi akusho ukuthi unomlutha.
Izizathu eziningi ezahlukahlukene, ezinye zazo ezingokwengqondo, zingashayela isifiso sakho samathambo amaningi, kepha ukulutheka mhlawumbe akuyona enye yazo. Ake sibheke ngokucophelela izici ezingaba nomthelela esifisweni sakho sokuthola inki eyengeziwe.
Ingabe indlela yokuziphatha efuna i-adrenaline?
Umzimba wakho ukhipha i-hormone ebizwa nge-adrenaline uma unengcindezi. Ubuhlungu obuzwayo kusuka enaliti ye-tattoo bungaveza le mpendulo yengcindezi, kubangele ukuqhuma okungazelelwe kwamandla okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-adrenaline rush.
Lokhu kungadala ukuthi:
- ukushaya kwenhliziyo okwenyukile
- ngizwe ubuhlungu obuncane
- ube nama-jitters noma umuzwa ongaphumuli
- uzwe sengathi izinzwa zakho ziphakeme
- uzizwe unamandla
Abanye abantu bayawuthokozela lo muzwa kangangokuba bayafuna. Ungathola ukushesha kwe-adrenaline kusuka enkambisweni yokuthola i-tattoo yakho yokuqala, ngakho-ke i-adrenaline ingaba ngesinye sezizathu zokuthi abantu babuyele emuva ukuthola amanye ama-tattoos.
Ezinye izindlela zokufuna i-adrenaline zingahle zifane nokuziphatha okuphoqelelayo noma okubeka engcupheni okuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nokulutha kwezidakamizwa. Kungenzeka wake wezwa ngisho nomuntu ezibiza “ngomkhohlisi we-adrenaline.”
Kodwa abukho ubufakazi besayensi obusekela ukuba khona kokulutha kwe-adrenaline, futhi i- "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders" ayibhalisi njengesimo sokuxilongwa.
Ingxenye yesizathu sokuthi ufuna enye i-tattoo kungaba ukuthi uyakujabulela ukushesha okuzwayo lapho ungena ngaphansi kwenaliti, ngakho-ke ungahle uthande ukuthatha isikhathi esithe xaxa ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyawufuna ngempela loyinki.
Uma ukuthola enye i-tattoo kungakubangeli ukucindezeleka noma ukubeka noma ngubani omunye engozini, kwenze.
Ungabe ulambele ama-endorphin?
Uma ulimele noma usezinhlungwini, umzimba wakho ukhipha ama-endorphin, amakhemikhali emvelo asiza ekudambiseni izinhlungu futhi anikele emizweni yenjabulo. Umzimba wakho uphinde ukhulule lokhu ngezinye izikhathi, njengalapho usebenza, udla noma wenza ucansi.
Ama-tattoo abangela okungenani ezinye izinhlungu, noma ngabe ububekezelela kahle. Ama-endorphin akhululwa ngumzimba wakho ngesikhathi sokuzidweba angakwenza uzizwe kahle futhi abangele umuzwa wenjabulo. Lo muzwa ungahlala isikhashana, futhi akuyona into engavamile ukufuna ukuzwa futhi.
Indlela ama-endorphin athinta ngayo ubuchopho bakho ayihlukile kakhulu kunaleyo ekunciphiseni izinhlungu zamakhemikhali ezinjenge-opioid ezithinta ubuchopho bakho.
Zibandakanya izindawo ezifanayo zobuchopho, ngakho-ke "ukuphakama" okutholayo ekukhishweni kwe-endorphin kungabonakala kufana nemizwa ekhiqizwa yi-opioid. Kodwa i-endorphin ephezulu yenzeka ngokwemvelo futhi ayinamandla kangako.
Ufuna ukuzwa ukuthi i-euphoria ingabamba iqhaza ekufisweni kwakho komunye umdwebo, kodwa abukho ubufakazi besayensi obukhombisa ukuthi ungakha umlutha we-endorphin, noma ngabe ukuqhuma kwakho kwe-endorphin kuhlobene nomdwebo noma okunye.
Ingabe ungumlutha wezinhlungu?
Kuyiqiniso elamukelwa ngokujwayelekile ukuthi ukuthola i-tattoo kuzobandakanya izinga elithile lobuhlungu.
Umdwebo omkhulu, onemininingwane, noma onemibalabala uzoba buhlungu kakhulu kune-tattoo encane, enganemininingwane eminingi, kepha abantu abaningi abathola i-tattoo bazozizwa okungenani ukungakhululeki okuncane phakathi nenqubo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uthokozele umuzwa wokuthakwa emzimbeni ngenxa yokukhishwa kwe-endorphin ehambisana nobuhlungu. Abanye abantu abajabulela ukuzwa okubuhlungu bangakuthola ukudweba tattoo kujabulise kakhulu kunokungakhululeki.
IMasochism, noma ukuthokozela kobuhlungu, kungakusiza uzizwe ukhululeke ngokwengeziwe ngenkathi uthola i-tattoo, kepha inhloso yakho kungenzeka kakhulu ubuciko obuhlala njalo emzimbeni wakho, hhayi ubuhlungu obufushane obuzwayo ngenkathi udwetshwa.
Akuwona wonke umuntu othola tattoo othokozela ukuzwa ubuhlungu. Eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi umane uzimisele (futhi ukwazi) ukubekezelela ubuhlungu ngenxa yocezu lobuciko bomzimba okusho okuthile kuwe.
Noma ngabe uyakujabulela ukushuba kweseshini ye-tattoo kanye nama-endorphin akhululwa ngumzimba wakho noma ubekezelela inaliti ngokuzivocavoca okujulile, akukho lucwaningo oluphakamisa ukuthi ukulutha kobuhlungu kwenza abantu bathole ama-tattoo amaningi.
Ingabe kuyisifiso esiqhubekayo sokuveza imibono?
Ama-tattoo akuvumela ukuthi uziveze. Noma ngabe uzakhela i-tattoo yakho noma umane uchaze ukuthi ufunani kumculi we-tattoo, ubeka ubuciko obuhlala njalo obukhethayo emzimbeni wakho.
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Uma kuqhathaniswa nezingubo, izitayela zezinwele, nezinye izinhlobo zemfashini, ama-tattoos angazizwa eyinkulumo ebaluleke kakhulu yesitayela ngoba ayingxenye (engapheli) engunaphakade yakho. Ungazisebenzisela ukukhombisa uhambo lokutakula noma inselelo yomuntu siqu noma impumelelo.
Umdwebo ngamunye owutholayo uba yingxenye yendaba yakho, futhi lo muzwa ungakuthokozisa, ukukhuthaze ukuziveza okuqhubekayo.
Ukudala kungashayela isidingo esinamandla sokuqhubeka nokuziveza ngobuciko ngamathambo, kepha abukho ubufakazi besayensi obukhombisa ukuthi lesi sifiso sokudala siyalutha.
Kungenzeka yini kube ukukhululeka kwengcindezi?
Ukuthola i-tattoo kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka ngezindlela ezimbalwa ezihlukile. Isibonelo, ungathola eyodwa ukumaka ukuphela kwesikhathi esinzima empilweni yakho.
Abanye abantu futhi bathola ama-tattoos akhombisa ubunzima bomuntu noma ukuhlukumezeka noma ukukhumbula abantu abalahlekile. I-tattoo ingaba uhlobo lwe-catharsis ebasizayo ukucubungula imizwa ebuhlungu, izinkumbulo, noma eminye imizwa ecindezelayo.
Kungaba lula ukuphendukela ezindleleni ezingenampilo zokubhekana nokucindezeleka, njenge:
- ukuphuza utshwala
- ukubhema
- ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa
Kepha ngokuvamile awusheshi ukuya endaweni yokubhala tattoo lapho uzizwa ucindezelekile. Ama-tattoo ayabiza, futhi akuvamile ukuchitha izinyanga noma ngisho neminyaka uhlela umklamo.
Azikho izibalo eziningi ezitholakalayo mayelana namathambo, kodwa izilinganiso ezivamile ziphakamisa ukuthi abantu abaningi balinde iminyaka ngemuva kwe-tattoo yabo yokuqala ngaphambi kokuthola okwesibili. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuthola i-tattoo akuyona indlela yokuthola ukukhululeka kwengcindezi yanoma ngubani. (Thola amathiphu okubhekana nokucindezeleka lapha.)
Ingabe i-inki ngokwayo ingalutha?
Uma uhlela i-tattoo, uzofuna ukubheka okuncane okungenzeka ukuthi isikhumba sakho singasabela kabi ku-inki we-tattoo.
Noma umdwebi wakho we-tattoo esebenzisa izinaliti eziyinyumba futhi indawo oyikhethayo ye-tattoo ihlanzekile, ilayisensi, futhi iphephile, ungaba nokungezwani komzimba noma ukuzwela kukayinki osetshenzisiwe. Lokhu akuvamile, kodwa kungenzeka.
Ngenkathi ungahle ubhekane nengozi encane yokuphendula okweqile noma ukuvuvukala kwesikhumba, ucwaningo lwesayensi aluzitholi izithako ku-inki ezibeka engcupheni yokuba umlutha. Isifiso sokuthola ama-tattoos amaningi kungenzeka ukuthi asihlangene nakancane noyinki we-tattoo osetshenziswa ngumculi wakho.
Ukuthatha
Umlutha yisimo esibucayi sempilo yengqondo kubandakanya ukuthanda okukhulu into ethile noma umsebenzi. Lezi zifiso zivame ukukuholela ekufuneni into noma umsebenzi ngaphandle kokukhathalela noma yimiphi imiphumela engaba khona.
Uma une-tattoo eyodwa futhi ukujabulele lokho okuhlangenwe nakho, ungahle uthande ukuthola ama-tattoo amaningi. Ungazizwa sengathi awukwazi ukulinda ukuthola okulandelayo. Ukushesha kwama-adrenaline nama-endorphin owazwayo ngenkathi udwetshwa kungakhulisa nesifiso sakho sokuningi.
Abantu abaningi bayayijabulela le mizwa neminye ehlotshaniswa nokuthola i-tattoo, kepha le mizwa ayimele ukulutha ngomqondo womtholampilo. Akukho ukuxilongwa kwempilo yengqondo yokulutha kwe-tattoo.
Ukudweba imifanekiso emzimbeni kuyinqubo ejulile. Kuyabiza futhi kudinga izinga elithile lokuhlela, ukubekezelela izinhlungu, nokuzinikela ngesikhathi. Kepha uma uthando lwakho lwamathambo lungakubangeli noma yikuphi ukucindezeleka, kufanele uzizwe ukhululekile ukuveza imizwa yakho noma ngabe ukhetha kanjani.
Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ukhetha umculi we-tattoo onelayisense futhi uzenze wazi ngezingozi ezingaba khona nemiphumela engemihle ngaphambi kokuthola i-tattoo yakho yokuqala - noma engu-15.