Kungani Kufanele Uzame Ukuya Kuma-Movie Wedwa

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Ukwelapha wena nge-solo movie "date" ungazizwa uxakile ekuqaleni, kepha uma i-celeb ingakwenza, kungani wena ungakwazanga? I-Yep, i-TMZ ibike ukuthi u-Justin Bieber uqhamuke yedwa enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini ngoMsombuluko (kahle, ubesenabaqaphi bakhe), wa-oda ama-nachos, waba nobusuku obuhle ehleli yedwa. Kuzwakala sengathi ubusuku obuhle kakhulu, futhi kusenze sazibuza: Kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzihlalela wedwa ngezinye izikhathi? (Futhi, zama lawa mathiphu ngobusuku bosuku olunempilo ku.)

Kuvela ukuthi, ukuzihlalela wedwa kungaba "yisikhathi esikhethekile lapho ungangena khona ngaphakathi, uzibonise, futhi ubeke phambili ukuzinakekela," kusho uSamantha Burns, umeluleki onelayisense wezempilo yengqondo nombhali Thanda ngempumelelo: Izimfihlo eziyi-10 Odinga Ukuzazi Njengamanje. Isikhathi osichitha wedwa noma ngabe uya kumamuvi, ubamba ukudla endaweni yokudlela oyithandayo (ukuzidla wedwa akufanele uzizwe wesaba!), Noma ukuziphekela isidlo sakusihlwa ngebhodlela elikhulu lewayini kubalulekile ngoba kungakucacisela ngakho konke kusuka ebudlelwaneni kuya emsebenzini wakho. “Imvamisa ugijimisana nokuhamba ngezimoto usuka emsebenzini uye emibuthanweni yokuzijabulisa ukuze uphole nomlingani wakho (uma unaye), futhi awunalo ithuba lokuzicubungula uphinde ucubungule indlela ozizwa ngayo,” kusho uBurns. Empeleni ukuzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngezinto-lokho okwenzeka kahle noma okungalungile empilweni yakho njengamanje-kungakunikeza uhlobo lokuqonda oludingayo.

Okubaluleke nakakhulu, "lezi zigigaba zodwa zingakukhumbuza ukuthi ungubani, izinto ozithanda kakhulu, futhi zivuse umuzwa wakho wokuzimela nokuzethemba," esho. (Ingabe ufuna ukuthatha uhambo lwangempela uwedwa? Hlola izindawo zokuzivocavoca ezingcono kakhulu zabesifazane abahamba bodwa.) Cishe abantu abaningi abanaso isikhathi sokwenza idethi yokuma yamasonto onke nabo, kodwa uBurns uthi uma udlula inguquko enkulu yempilo (mhlawumbe udlula kokuthile okufana no-Biebs ethola ukuthi ex yakhe u-Selena Gomez kungenzeka adlulele ku-Weeknd), kuwumqondo omuhle ukusika isikhathi ohlelweni lwakho ukuze ujabule wedwa. Izinguquko zomsebenzi, njengokulahlekelwa noma ukushintsha umsebenzi wakho, futhi kuyisikhathi lapho ungazuza khona ngesikhathi esithile sokucabanga, khumbula ukuthi kungani umangalisa, futhi ucabange ukuthi yiziphi izinhloso ezintsha ongafuna ukuzibekela zona. (Lapha, thola okuningi ngokuzibekela imigomo emikhulu.)

Uma ungazizwa ukhululekile ukuchitha isikhathi uwedwa ezindaweni zomphakathi lapho abantu bejwayele ukuba nabantu (ibha, noma indawo yokudlela ematasa), abakwaBurns abafuni ukuthi uvele ugweme lezo zindawo. Kunalokho, utusa ukuba uzibuze ngani uzizwa kanjalo. "Phonsela inselelo imicabango yakho emibi noma yokuzihlula ngokuzibuza ukuthi kungani ukhathalela kangaka uma umuntu ongamazi ekwahlulela ngokuhlala wedwa," esho. Khumbula ukuthi lokho abantu abangaziwa bacabanga ukuthi kunakho iqanda umthelela empilweni yakho. Uma konke okunye kwehluleka, letha incwadi ukuze uziphazamise lapho uzizwa ungakhululekile. "Yisikhathi sakho sokuphumula futhi uhlangabezane nezidingo zakho, okufanele kukwenze uzizwe uziqhenya futhi uqiniseka, ungavikelekile futhi unesizungu." Ngakho-ke qhubeka wenze okuthile okukwenza uzizwe ujabulile-akukho bangane noma umlingani odingekayo.

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