Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi kuyakuthinta ukusebenza kwakho?

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• Kungani abantu becabanga ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi kungabasiza ukuthi bahlale isikhathi eside embhedeni?
• Ngakho ukushaya indlwabu ngeke kukwenze uhlale isikhathi eside?
• Kuthiwani ngokushaya indlwabu nomlingani wakho?
• Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi socansi kungakusiza i-orgasm?
• Okubalulekile

Ngabe kunjalo?

Ukushaya indlwabu kuyindlela emnandi, engokwemvelo, nephephile yokufunda ngomzimba wakho, ukuzijwayeza ukuzithanda, nokuthola umqondo ongcono wokuthi yikuphi okukuvula phakathi kwamashidi.

Kodwa abukho ubufakazi besayensi bokuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi kunomthelela - ongemuhle noma omuhle - ekutheni wenza kanjani noma wehle kanjani ngesikhathi sesenzo. Futhi yize imibiko eminingi engavumelani nesayensi ikhuluma ngokushaya indlwabu kwabesilisa, asikho isixhumanisi esisunguliwe sokushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane, noma.

Qhubeka ufunde ukuthola ukuthi kungani abantu becabanga ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuthinta ukusebenza kwezocansi nokuthi wena (nomlingani wakho!) Ungakusebenzisa kanjani ukushaya indlwabu ukwenza izinto zibe mnandi.

Kungani abantu becabanga ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi kungabasiza ukuthi bahlale isikhathi eside embhedeni?

Izizathu ziyahlukahluka.

Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuya ocansini nomlingani wakho kususa ukwakheka, empeleni kukhulula noma ikuphi ukungezwani kocansi okungakwenza ube umvuthwandaba ngokushesha.

Abanye bangathola ushintsho emazingeni ama-hormone anciphisa i-sex drive yabo, kanye nesikhathi esithatha kwi-orgasm.

Lokhu kushintshashintsha nakho kungathinta amandla omzimba wakho wokuzigcoba ngokwakho. Ubulili besitho sangasese sangasese ngeke bukhululeke kuwe noma kumlingani wakho uma kungekho ukuthambisa okwanele, okwemvelo noma okunye.

Ngakho ukushaya indlwabu ngeke kukwenze uhlale isikhathi eside?

Ukushaya indlwabu kungenzeka kukwenze uhlale isikhathi eside, kepha ayikho indlela yokuqinisekisa lokhu.

Wonke umuntu uhlangabezana nesikhathi sokuphika - noma isigaba sokululama - ngemuva komvuthwandaba. Umvuthwandaba wenzeka lapho umzimba wakho ufinyelela umkhawulo wawo wokukhuthaza ezocansi. Ukukhuthazeka okwedlule leli phuzu kungaba okungathandeki.

Umzimba wakho uyeka ukuphendula ekuvuseleleni ngesikhathi sokuphikisa ukuvimbela ukungakhululeki futhi uvumele umzimba wakho ubuyele esimweni semvelo.

Isikhathi sakho sokuphikisa esihlala njalo sihlala isikhathi esingakanani kuncike ku:

• ubudala
• ubulili
• ukuzwela

Isibonelo, abesilisa abasebasha bangadinga kuphela imizuzu embalwa ukululama, kanti amadoda amadala angadinga noma kuphi kusuka emahoreni ayi-12 kuye kwangama-24.

Abesifazane imvamisa banezikhathi ezimfushane zokuphika - okuvumela abesifazane abaningi ukuthi babe nama-orgasms amaningi ngasikhathi sinye.

Uma unesikhathi eside sokuphikisa, ukushaya indlwabu kungakuvimbela ekuvuthweni usuku lonke - mhlawumbe kuze kufike kolandelayo. Yize ubulili bomlingani bungajabulisa noma ngaphandle kwe-orgasm, umvuthwandaba wakho wangaphambilini ungathinta i-libido yakho futhi ucindezele isifiso sakho sokusondelana ngokwengeziwe.

Kuthiwani ngokushaya indlwabu nomlingani wakho?

Abantu abaningi bakuthola kuvusa inkanuko ukubona ukuthi umlingani wabo wehla kanjani ngemuva kweminyango evaliwe. Eqinisweni, ukushaya indlwabu kuyindlela enhle yokubona ukuthi yini eyenza umlingani wakho ashise futhi uthole ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze uqhubeke ukwanelisa izifiso zabo.

Ufuna ukuxuba ukushaya indlwabu esenzweni sakho sangaphambili? Zama lezi zikhundla:

Ubuso nobuso. Isimo sobuso nobuso kulula ukusifaka ngesikhathi seseshini ye-foreplay eshubile. Ngenkathi uxubana embhedeni - noma phansi - hlala ubheke umlingani wakho. Thola indawo yokuhlala ehlelekile futhi ekuvumela ukuthi uthokozele kalula isenzo esithile sedwa.

Icala ngecala. Ukuma ohlangothini ngohlangothi kuphelele ekuzijabuliseni kwasekuseni embhedeni. Uma uvuka uzizwa unqabile, qala ukuzithinta ngenkathi ulele eceleni komlingani wakho. Lapho ukububula kwakho sekubavuse baphapheme, dlala ngezindawo zabo ezine-erogenous, njengezingono zabo, ngenkathi beqala ukuzijabulisa bona.

I-classic engu-69. Isikhundla esihle sika-ol 69 asikho nje ukuzithokozisa ngomlomo. Ungaphinda uhlanganyele ekudlaleni kwe-solo eyodwa ngenkathi ukuyo. Phakathi kokudlala ngomlomo, thatha imizuzu embalwa - noma ngaphezulu! - ukuzithokozisa ngenkathi ubuka umlingani wakho enza okufanayo.

Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi socansi kungakusiza i-orgasm?

Yebo! Uma unenkinga yokuvuthwa ngesikhathi socansi, ukusebenzisa isandla sakho noma ithoyizi lakho olithandayo kungakusondeza kuvuthondaba noma kukuthumele ngokuphelele.

Uyazi ukuthi umzimba wakho uphendula ini, ngakho-ke ukushaya indlwabu kungakwenza uzizwe uvuswa ngokwengeziwe. Lapho izitho zakho zobulili nomzimba zithinta kakhudlwana, imizwa iyoba namandla kakhulu.

Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi kufanele ugcine isenzo sakho sedwa sihlukile ekungeneni. Ungaba nokuningi okuningi - futhi sisho okuningi okuningi - kumnandi uma uzijabulisa ngenkathi uqhubeka.

Okubalulekile

Lalela umzimba wakho. Uma ufuna ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi, kwenze. Uma ungakwenzi, ungakwenzi. Ayikho indlela elungile noma engalungile yokwenza ngakho.

Ukucabanga kwakho kungenzeka kube yinto enqumayo lapha.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kocansi kuzoholela ku-orgasm engcono, khona-ke kungaba yisiphrofetho esizigcwalisayo. Kuyafana futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi kuzoba nomphumela omubi. Kunoma ikuphi, yenza lokho okuzwakala kukufanele.