Izimpawu eziyinhloko ze-Oniomania (Compulsive Consumerism) nokuthi ilashwa kanjani

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• Izimpawu ze-Oniomania
• Indlela yokwelapha

I-Oniomania, ebizwa nangokuthi ukuthengiselana ngokweqile, iyinkinga ejwayelekile kakhulu yezengqondo eveza ukushiyeka nobunzima ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu. Abantu abathenga izinto eziningi, ezivame ukungadingeki, bangahle bahlupheke ngezinkinga ezinkulu ezingokomzwelo futhi kufanele bafune uhlobo oluthile lokwelashwa.

Le nkinga ithinta abesifazane kakhulu kunabesilisa futhi ijwayele ukuvela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-18. Uma ishiywe ingalashwa, ingadala izinkinga zezezimali futhi ilethe ukulahleka okukhulu. Imvamisa, laba bantu bayaphuma bayothenga izinto lapho bezizwa bebodwa noma bedumele ngento ethile. Ukwaneliseka okuhle kokuthenga okuthile okusha ngokushesha kuyanyamalala bese kufanele uthenge okunye, ukwenze umjikelezo ononya.

Ukwelashwa okufanele kakhulu kokuthenga ngabathengi yi-psychotherapy, ezobheka umsuka wenkinga bese kuthi umuntu kancane kancane ayeke ukuthenga izinto ngomfutho.

Izimpawu ze-Oniomania

Uphawu oluyinhloko lwe-oniomania ukuthenga okungacabangi futhi, ezimweni eziningi, izimpahla ezingadingekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izimpawu ezingakhombisa lokhu kuphazamiseka yilezi:

• Thenga izinto eziphindiwe;
• Fihla ukuthenga emndenini nakubangane;
• Ukuqamba amanga ngokuthenga;
• Sebenzisa imalimboleko yasebhange noma yomndeni ukuthenga;
• Ukuntuleka kokulawulwa kwezezimali;
• Ukuthenga ngenhloso yokubhekana nosizi, ukudabuka nokukhathazeka;
• Ukuba necala ngemuva kokuthenga, kepha lokho akukuvimbi ekuthengeni futhi.

Abantu abaningi abangabathengi abaphoqelekile bathenga ngomzamo wokuzijabulisa nenjabulo futhi, ngakho-ke, bakuthatha ukuthenga njengekhambi losizi nokukhungatheka. Ngenxa yalokhu, i-oniomania ingahlala inganakwa, ibonwe kuphela lapho umuntu enezinkinga ezinkulu zezezimali.

Indlela yokwelapha

Ukwelashwa kwe-oniomania kwenziwa ngezikhathi zokwelashwa, lapho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sifuna ukuqonda nokwenza umuntu aqonde isizathu sokudla ngokweqile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uchwepheshe ufuna amasu phakathi nezikhathi ezikhuthaza ushintsho ekuziphatheni komuntu.

Ukwelashwa kweqembu nakho kuvame ukusebenza futhi kunemiphumela emihle, ngoba ngesikhathi sabantu abanamandla abahlanganyela ukugula okufanayo bayakwazi ukuveza ukungazethembi kwabo, ukukhathazeka nemizwa engalethwa ukuthenga, okungenza inqubo yokwamukela lesi sifo ibe lula futhi ixazululwe nge-oniomania.

Kwezinye izimo, kunganconywa ukuthi lowo muntu abuye abonane nodokotela wezifo zengqondo, ikakhulukazi uma kutholakala ukuthi ngaphezu kokuthenga ngenkani, kunokudangala noma ukukhathazeka, ngokwesibonelo. Ngakho-ke, udokotela wezifo zengqondo angakhombisa ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezilwa nokudangala noma okusimamisa imizwa.